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I’m loosing hope please please help!!!!

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Louise2021 · 30/06/2022 12:33

We went for an early scan on Sunday.. should’ve been 7+1 however was told I was around 5/6 weeks.. fetal pole was present (measuring 3mm) but no heartbeat detected. We have to return in 10 days for rescan. I’ve had brown spotting for the last 5 days, only very minimal but it’s there when I wipe. I still have all my pregnancy symptoms; nausea and sore boobs, im not as bloated as I was but that’s probably because I can hardly face eating with the stress. My pregnancy tests are major dye stealers, this mornings was the darkest it’s ever been (diluted too) I’ve seen many success stories on this subject however I’m not feeling that would be the case for me as I have an idea when I ovulated and got a positive test quite soon before my period. I’m just wondering if anyone has been in a similar position with a positive outcome or even a negative outcome just so I know what to expect? Any advice, help or support would be greatly appreciated, I feel like I’m loosing my mind, it’s like torture waiting 😩😣

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Babyghirl · 30/06/2022 17:48

@Louise2021
My story ended not good I went for a 7 week scan measured 5+6 also brown spotting could not c anything but a sac on the scan I started bleeding heavy at 10 weeks, hope yours turns out a better outcome x

Magik8ball · 30/06/2022 17:58

Well to begin with, you can't really predict the exact date of conception so I'd ignore the date you had in mind, it will just aggravate you.
If it's too early you're not going to hear a heartbeat anyway, same thing happened to me during this pregnancy.
As of the bleeding, I bled early around the same time as you. And it even became pink. I am now 34 weeks pregnant.
Keep your hopes up! None of your symptoms are specific to a miscarriage, you got this mama😊

Frida9 · 30/06/2022 18:33

I had brown spotting, had a scan at 7 weeks and was told I was more 5/6 weeks and no fetal pole seen. Had a second scan Monday where I was measuring 8 weeks and heartbeat seen 😊 if it's just spotting I wouldn't worry too much

Steakcutchipswithsteak · 30/06/2022 21:32

We went for an early scan on Sunday.. should’ve been 7+1 however was told I was around 5/6 weeks..

Theoretically you might be 7+1 but implantation can easily be 3-4 days off from the theory because it csn take 6-10 days to implant. Pretty big difference. And how sure are you of conveption? The egg lives for about 24 hours and can be fertilised at the beginning or end meaning an extra day that your theoretical calculation is off. You could easily be pregnant with a six week old feotus.

It could be a miscarriage of course, but I wouldn't just go by dates here. I hope all will turn out to be well.

Louise2021 · 04/07/2022 12:33

Just wanted to update this thread.. we sadly had it confirmed yesterday that I am unfortunately having a missed miscarriage and it was also confirmed that it was a twin pregnancy which is truly devastating.. but potentially explains why my nausea was bad and my test were so dark. Just want to say thank you so much for your messages of hope when I needed it, gutted it wasn’t the result I wanted but I appreciate you all taking the time to comment xxxx

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Lacedwithgrace · 04/07/2022 12:36

So sorry OP x

suzyscat · 04/07/2022 13:12

I'm sorry. I remember how devastated I was and how much I struggled in the period after. The hormones really don't help. Take it easy. Flowers

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