This is probably a really stupid question, but I'm just getting so confused about movements and patterns and it is causing so much worry for me.
I'm 29 weeks pregnant and I'd say my baby is on the whole an active baby. I feel her regularly throughout the day, though this doesn't follow a specific pattern. Sometimes I feel her a lot in the morning and she's quiet in the afternoon, other days it's the opposite. The only thing that is consistent is she's a little party animal after 9pm.
So would this be considered a pattern? Is night time activeness and spurts of daytime activity a pattern?
Whenever I ask midwives I'm told I'll learn what her pattern is, but in all honesty it's just confusing me and creating anxiety when she seems quieter sometimes.
So can a pattern be that a baby is active at night and has no pattern in the day? Or does this just mean she has no pattern? Thank you 💙