PLEASE HELP DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO !

[babycarrier]

NOT SURE IF THIS IS RIGHT BOARD TO DO THIS BUT BEFORE I WENT FOR MY 20WK SCAN MY PARTNER SAID HE DIDNT WANT A BOY AS WE ALREADY HAVE 3 GIRLS THAT HE WAS USED TO HAVING GIRLS SO DONT WANT A BOY ,WELL AT MY SCAN I FOUND OUT THAT WE ARE HAVING A BOY AND DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO .I TRIED LEAVING HIM IN AUGUST BUT COUNCIL WOULDNT PUT ME AND 5 KIDS ANYWHERE AND SAID WE HAD STAY LIVING AT HOME WITH HIM FOR 28 DAYS HE THEN GOT A LETTER SAYING THEY ADDED 2WKS ON IT AND HE HAD TO SIGN AND AGREE WHICH HE DIDNT BOTHER NOW IM 5MTHS PREGNANT AND GLAD AND HAPPY ITS A BOY BUT HE ISNT WHAT CAN I DO. DO I LEAVE HIM GO COUNCIL SAY HE DONT WANT HIS CHILD COS ITS A BOY LET THEM HAVE A LAUGH OR JUST DO A RUNNER WITH KIDS WITH NOWHERE TO GO.

Babycarrier not really sure what to advise you. If you had found out that the baby was a girl would you feel the same way? It sounds as if you are sure you want to leave your partner and don't know how to do it. Have I got this right?

If you really want to leave, then I wouldn't waste any time worrying what the council think - they won't think badly of you in that situation. Only of him. I'd be very surprised if they thought that was funny.

He sounds like a complete arse, get yourself down to the council tomorrow and declare yourself homeless.

i have declared myself homeless and the woman who was dealing with it said i wasnt homeless and had a roof over my head and to go back for 28 days to find somewhere for us