I've just found out I'm pregnant

[ohshttttt]

As per the title really. On contraceptive pill so not planned but I've had really sore boobs and period pains and nausea for a few days, took a pregnancy test to be sure and it is very positive!

I've only been with my boyfriend 9 months, I have no idea how to tell him or how he's going to react.

Hand hold please 😬

Virtual hug from me. I hope it goes well x

🖐🏼

if I were you I'd think about what I wanted, before telling my Bf, then I'd be very clear about what I was going to be doing. If I had decided to terminate, I possibly wouldn't even tell him, because if that's not what he wanted that would be hard on him. If I'd decided not to terminate I'd be clear that wasn't an option & his choices would be to be involved or not.

obviously a bit 'softer', but I find there's value in knowing my own mind.

Did you forget a pill or pills plural at some point?

Or have a tummy bug?

Thank you, I don't know if I could have a termination but you're right it is something that I need to think about. My boyfriend is amazing and I am confined he will support me whatever I decided but it's just such a shock. I fully expected the test to be negative.

I take my contraceptive pill religiously. I keep them by the kettle so I see it when making a brew on a morning and remember to take! I haven't had been sick at all but did have an upset stomach and also covid but I don't think could be related.

I really am in shock

Confident