To think if I don’t get a “pinching, pulling” sensation around 7dpo, it’s not my month?

[Rosey22]

I’ve been on the conception threads a long time and I’ve noticed that even if a poster gets their BFP and says they had no symptoms or no idea, if you look back at their posts, they post about pinching, pulling sensations around 7dpo.

Equally, if I search old threads and a poster mentions this sensation then I know about one week later I will read that the poster got their BFP.

So, I know this isn’t AIBU, but AIBU to assume if I don’t experience it, then it’s not my month?

I’ve been pregnant 4 times (2 CP, 1 DC, 1 current pregnancy). Twice I’ve had a sharp pain at 6dpo. Twice I’ve had nothing – certainly no pulling or pinching. And I’m an obsessive symptom spotter and POASer! This current pregnancy there was no sign of implantation or any symptoms until 11dpo when my sole symptom was “felt a bit odd”. Every pregnancy and every BFP is different.

AIBU Pregnancy version, lol! I like it 😊

So to keep in the spirit of AIBU, @Rosey22 YABU 😅I didn't get anything like that and I'm 26 weeks 🤗

I've been pregnant 9 times but lost 7 - I had very strong implantation pains with DD but literally got nothing with my twins - the other pregnancies I'd say 50/50 so honestly you really can't tell

I don't recall anything like this in my three pregnancies! Have no idea what you're talking about. So maybe I didn't experience it.

I've had three babies and never experienced that in any of the pregnancies.

I've never had that on my positive cycles. In fact, the cycles where I conceived I had the fewest symptoms ever! As in none until after testing positive.

Symptom-spotting when TTC often goes into overdrive and you notice stuff that actually happens every month but you've never taken notice before. For every person whose pinching and pulling ends in pregnancy, there will be two more who think they've felt that but haven't conceived.

Pregnant twice and two babies but never felt this sensation. Although I was trying both times I was surprised by a bfp as nothing to suggest I might be before the test result Only started to get symptoms at about week 6 in both pregnancies.

Only symptom I had for first 6 weeks was tiredness.

Haha I didn’t fancy going into the bear pit!

I do want to BU, but I am on 8dpo and have felt nothing apart from some left hand side lower back ache on days 1-3dpo. So I am just feeling really despondent and fed up!

I've been pregnant three times:

1 - mmc at 8 weeks
2 - resulted in my dd
3 - currently 5+1

I've never had a pinching or pulling sensation in the tww ever.