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10w5d and I am not feeling pregnant anymore !!!

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arshenick90 · 27/03/2022 11:20

Hi guys!
I hope you can help me a bit to survive next couple of weeks before I will fully loose my sanity....

I am 32yrs old, I have two healthy sons - 10yrs old and 3yrs old.
Between them I had 4 MC on a early stage 4-6weeks.

Now I am pregnant again, today it should be 10w5d ....

This pregnancy started with spotting, bleeding and clotting so I had already 2 early scans ( 6weeks and 7weeks) and 1 private scan at 8weeks. All of them showed healthy bean with a heartbeat etc.
No explanation for bleeding.
I am on progesterone support.

And now- last 4 days I am with covid, there's some bacterial infection in my urine track....

And I don't feel pregnant at all....
My back hurt sometimes, feel weird hot sensation in my belly....
My belly is flat ( beside of extreme bloating due to progesterone), my pregnancy symptoms almost completely vanished.... and I feel so empty inside my womb....
My 12 weeks scan is in 10 days.
I am so scared.
I am almost sure once I will lay down they will tell me that my bean's heartbeat stopped around 9-10 week .....

I don't know how To manage my anxiety....

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arshenick90 · 29/03/2022 13:08

@Yebbie

I posted a thread recently about being well in to my second trimester and losing symptoms and was reassured by lots of comments saying that it was normal in their case. Unfortunately in my case it was not good news, and it went undiscovered for many more weeks. I don't want to cause any panic - in the majority of cases it is normal and just the placenta taking over. However I would contact the EPU and get it checked. I wish I had a lot sooner, nothing could of been different for my baby boy, but atleast I wouldn't of had the trauma of finding out so late that he was gone.
Until next week no one can do anything for me- no one will see me with my covid tests positive....
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Yebbie · 29/03/2022 13:11

You cannot be refused medical care due to covid. Hospitals have safe places in order to see the people who need to be seen. The RCOG guidelines state this. I would try especially after the heavy bleeding, you should be seen.

arshenick90 · 29/03/2022 13:17

@Yebbie

You cannot be refused medical care due to covid. Hospitals have safe places in order to see the people who need to be seen. The RCOG guidelines state this. I would try especially after the heavy bleeding, you should be seen.
I had scan after last bleeding and baby was alive. Now I don't even know what would I say to them " I need to be seen because I don't feel nothing" ?
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arshenick90 · 31/03/2022 18:59

Update - due to my anxiety I had begged out reassurance scan from my nearest EPAU for tomorrow morning.
So by 9am I will know exactly why I feel the way I feel.

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Howdiditgetsobad · 31/03/2022 19:03

Wishing you lots of luck @arshenick90. I have been in the exact same place. I have everything crossed for you.

MorningSicknessIsHell · 31/03/2022 19:17

@arshenick90

Update - due to my anxiety I had begged out reassurance scan from my nearest EPAU for tomorrow morning. So by 9am I will know exactly why I feel the way I feel.
Wishing you luck OP. Will be thinking of you.
Nat6999 · 31/03/2022 19:23

Like you I panicked because I felt better by 10 weeks after two previous MC, I paid for a 12 week scan because at the time you didn't get a scan until 15 weeks. The scan showed a perfect baby who was wriggling like mad. Ds is 18 now.

winterchills · 31/03/2022 20:02

Really got my fingers crossed for you 💕

arshenick90 · 31/03/2022 20:20

Thank you guys.
I really hope that this whole story of mine is simply just a panic attack of a paranoid woman and nothing more.
I really hope that me and my DH will have a chance to see a strong and big (enough for 11weeks I mean) baby moving and swimming around.
I hope the only thing I will feel tomorrow it's a relief and embarrassment that I literally have put this pregnancy with all my previous MC on the same line....
I hope.

I won't sleep probably- I am so nervous!!

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arshenick90 · 01/04/2022 14:27

Hi all, I am after the scan- all is good !!!
Baby is measuring around 4.3cm and is nice and wiggling ❤️ all is good ❤️❤️

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Slidey23 · 01/04/2022 14:33

@arshenick90

Hi all, I am after the scan- all is good !!! Baby is measuring around 4.3cm and is nice and wiggling ❤️ all is good ❤️❤️
Brilliant news!!! I hope you’re feeling better.
LolaJ87 · 01/04/2022 15:23

@arshenick90 Congratulations! You must be so relieved.

Howdiditgetsobad · 01/04/2022 15:48

Fantastic!! So pleased for you @arshenick90

wishuponastar1988 · 01/04/2022 15:53

So pleased for you - congrats xx

arshenick90 · 01/04/2022 16:30

Thank YOU all ❤️❤️❤️❤️ there's no words to describe how enormous relief it was to see this little bean just wiggle around ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I was in shock for the first 1hr after the scan, this is how sure I was that this scan will be a bad news for me.... 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

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MorningSicknessIsHell · 01/04/2022 18:06

Yay!!!!! So happy for you OP!!

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