Hi all, just received my first ever BFP and I'm both in shock and awe. I am 12dp5dt (medicated, frozen) after a round of IVF from last year.
I'm in a same-sex relationship. My wife and I decided to start the process almost three years ago now, back when I was 27. After all the tests I was told that IUI would be ideal for me as I had no known fertility issues.
Well. Six failed IUIs later, £20k spent with nothing to show, a pandemic, a terminal diagnosis given to my beloved mother, her subsequent death, the freezing of 11 embryos after a round of IVF... My wife and I sat at the kitchen table today and watched as within seconds a line appeared on the test.
I know it's still early days. I resisted testing because I was so terrified to know - at least if I didn't test I could live in the realm of 'could be' for just a little bit longer.
I wrote down all my symptoms which I'll copy below. I'll admit - I have found the medication involved in my FET absolutely brutal. I have a history of depression and wowzers, did my mental health take an absolute dive. Not helped by the fact I'm still grieving my beautiful Mum.
Symptoms below:
Day 0: some cramping. Slept for hours in the afternoon.
Day 1: some cramping.
Day 2: some cramping. Heavy fatigue. Hungry. Very sore boobs. Want sugar.
3: extreme emotion. Cramping. Sore boobs. Tired
4: angry. Tired. Headache. Fast heartbeat. Metal taste for a bit.
5: sore boobs. Headache. Lower appetite. Slight metallic taste in mouth.
Day 6: out of breath. Feel sick walking up hill. Tired. Crampy. Extreme emotion.
- Metallic taste. Cramps. Fatigued. Dry mouth.
- Extremely fatigued. Sore boobs. Cramps.
- Sore lower back. Some cramps. Very sore boobs. Sore lower back above tailbone
10. Utter despair. Life is has lost colour and meaning. Peeing a lot. Exhausted but can't sleep.
Very low cramping, right above vaj. Sort of burning.
11. Headache. Extreme fatigue. Metal taste in mouth. Emotional.
12: sore boobs. Sore lower back. Cramps. Dreamed I got about ten positives. Kept waking up thinking it was real.
THEN I GOT A REAL POSITIVE AHHH