Navigating pregnancy after loss

[Cruz86]

Just setting this up so we can move all pregnancy-related stuff from the TTC after miscarriage thread.

@aesgriff @speake @Bridgey8 @Prayingformyrainbow93 @mrshodgy21 @Skl2021 @Ganesh2022 @HoneyLemon29 @bunnykins123 @theblueflowers

Please tag anyone else I have missed, this is as much as my brain can handle 😂

Good luck @aesgriff and @Bridgey8 💜

I have sent my own doctors a message complaining about the local EPU, they may not do anything about me being seen so late but it's worth a try. My first Medicheck test was sent off yesterday 🤞

@Mammygillo25 how far along are you? X

12:18HoneyLemon29
I'm not sure December my period was 13th 14th and ended 15th
I had a light bled in January 5th 6th ended 7th I'm going by December

Thanks for the good luck wishes ladies. All fine! Measuring 10+4 and was kicking about but then stopped so must be shy! They can see the haematoma - it's smaller but not gone so more bleeding expected. Xxx

Yay yay yay!!! Congratulations @Bridgey8 🥰🥰

Gorgeous pic, congratulations @Bridgey8 🥰 xxx

@Bridgey8
Congratulations happy for you ❤

Amazing news @Bridgey8! That's such a lovely scan picture as well.

Congratulations @Bridgey8 💜

Congratulations @Bridgey8 that's brilliant news

@thunderonlyhappenswhenits I think the anxiety you are feeling is pretty common. I'm often checking my boobs are still sore. May be worth mentioning it to your midwife as well anyway.

@Overlyanxious it's completely understandable to feel the way you do. I've just had to message my doctors saying my anxiety is now out of control. I had a ruptured ectopic in Jan leaving me internally bleeding and needing emergency surgery. Not knowing where this current pregnancy is I can't cope with anymore. It's my last tube and if the same thing happens I'll be infertile. My EPU are refusing to see me until 6 weeks. I'm hoping my doctor can push them to see me at 5 weeks 😮‍💨

@Mammygillo25 good luck with your scan. Sounds like you could even be about 12 weeks then? X

@Bridgey8 good luck with the scan 💕✨ xx

@Bridgey8 brilliant news just seen pic! 💕🙌🎉 Xx

Thank you ill update Wednesday after my scan

Thanks everyone - really relieved to see the haematoma so I know what's causing it all. Hope everyone else is doing ok today xxxx

Bridgey8
I'm good just struggling with heartburn good sign hopefully

@Mammygillo25 that does sound like a good sign! Fingers crossed for you xx

[quote Overlyanxious]@thunderonlyhappenswhenits I think the anxiety you are feeling is pretty common. I'm often checking my boobs are still sore. May be worth mentioning it to your midwife as well anyway. [/quote]
Thanks for the reply. I've told my partner now how I've been feeling and that's helped a little as I don't feel like I'm pretending I'm okay when I'm not. Debating whether to hook myself another scan for around 10.5 weeks or to just wait now for the 12 week one. 3 weeks weeks such a long way away

So my cm is now brown with a touch of blood when I wipe & I have abdominal pain today 😭😭 Don’t know what to do as this is how it always starts for me. I’m 6+5 so don’t know if EPU would even see anything on an abdominal ultrasound & I absolutely do not want an internal scan. Have any of you had an abdominal scan at 7ish weeks? Xxx

@speak I'm really sorry to hear that :( and yes I did with my little boy at 7 weeks with no problem x

@speake also with my previous history with EPU they always go for the abdominal first. You could always go with the chance that'll work. But if they turn around and say you need an internal you can always decide against it 💜 it's up to you x

@speake my last pregnancy I had a scan at 7 weeks exactly and had abdominal could see everything. Hope your ok 💕 xx

Oh I'm so sorry @speake. I'd go to epu anyway and say you don't want an internal. They'd be bloody disgusting if they refused!! Xx

Thank you ladies, I phoned EPU & they also said at 7 weeks they should be able to see everything they need via ultrasound 🙏🏼🤞🏼 I’m in at 9am tomorrow, keep everything crossed for my little bean. I’ve been really lucky up until this point to have had no spotting & I dared to think things might be ok. Absolutely beside myself now, it’s going to be a long night 😭🙏🏼