Navigating pregnancy after loss

[Cruz86]

Just setting this up so we can move all pregnancy-related stuff from the TTC after miscarriage thread.

@aesgriff @speake @Bridgey8 @Prayingformyrainbow93 @mrshodgy21 @Skl2021 @Ganesh2022 @HoneyLemon29 @bunnykins123 @theblueflowers

Please tag anyone else I have missed, this is as much as my brain can handle 😂

Hi, sorry a random one for this group but does anyone know much about chicken pox? My 3 yr old looks like she’s starting with them and I hear it’s dangerous when you’re pregnant but I don’t know if it’s true or what to do? Any advice much appreciated!!

@calimc83 I'm 14+1 💕 - try not to get hung up on the tests - I spent so long staring at them trying to see if they were darker and then freaking out that my dye stealer wasn't as good as before when I was a bit further a long! Xxx

@1stTimeTina have you had it before? If that's the case you should be immune and fine - they are more worried if you haven't got immunity xx

@Bridgey8 gosh that's flying!! I know...that's why I'm not gonna test today and I'm not gonna do the weeks tests. Will just see stress me out x

Hey ladies so we went for another private scan Thursday just gone was amazing seeing bubba moving legs about but now last 2 days my cat has been literally on my chest when sleeping this happened before when we lost our babies anyone experienced there constantly on them when asleep? We have a epu scan booked for Monday but to be honest I think our baby has passed! Over 10 weeks if this has happened life is so cruel

@mrshodgy21 aww that scan is lovely 💕 why do you think that lovely? Is it just the cat on your chest or any other symptoms at all? If it's just the cat could it just be that it knows your pregnant and is protecting you? I don't have pets myself but my cousins cat did this all through her pregnancy from about 6 weeks and she just thought it was because she was protective and didn't want to sit on her stomach? I hope this is the case for you too ❤️

@arianasky I don't no maybe it's the anxiety of getting so far she laid on my chest at the beginning then she stopped and now started again
Ive stopping waking up in the night for a wee also
I only went for a private scan last pregnancy was because of the cat all over me I really hope I'm wrong just have a feeling it's happened again!

@mrshodgy21 I hope you're wrong aswell and that it's just the cat being protective 🤞🏻 I have everything crossed for you 💕🌈

@mrshodgy21 my dog loves to be near my tummy. I'm hoping it's a protection thing. Lovely scan photo xxx

Morning everyone. I booked a private scan for next Saturday but just realised I messed it up and it's actually today at 4! 😩 they won't let me rearrange without me losing the deposit 🥴
I booked the scan because I was worried about measuring behind. The first scan I was 3 days behind but the 2nd scan I was 5 days behind. It's been a week since the last and I'm hoping I'm not even further behind signalling a problem 😵‍💫 I can still hear babies heart rate through the monitor at 150 everyday but I still can't help but worry. I should be 7-8 weeks and praying I'm not measuring in 6 weeks still x

@theblueflowers I'm sorry to hear that and I hope everything goes well for you today 💜

Thank you @aesgriff unfortunately not good news. Heartbeat stopped at 7w3d.

I'm broken.
Thank you for all of your kind and encouraging words over the past few months. Wishing you all healthy and wonderful pregnancies x

@theblueflowers I'm so sorry for your lose life is so cruel thinking of you xx

@theblueflowers I am so, so sorry ♥️ My heart is broken for you. I’m sorry the world is so cruel and took away your baby that you loved so much. Sending you a big squeeze. It’s just so horrible 🥺xx

@theblueflowers oh my gosh I am so so sorry! My heart breaks for you 😔 ❤️

@theblueflowers I am so sorry you’re having to go through this again 🥺💔 I know there are no words that will be a consolation but know that I’m thinking of you & your partner. Big big cuddles, life is so unfair ☹️ Xxx

I'm so sorry @theblueflowers 😞 No words can ever describe what you're going through. Thinking of you, look after yourself ❤️❤️

I just wanted to say thank you so much for being such a supportive group. I've come to the conclusion that I won't be any happier unless I have another scan, so I'm going to bite the bullet and book a private one. You've all been so lovely and it's so nice to be with people who completely understand ❤️

@HoneyLemon29 good luck with your scan today.

@mrshodgy21 that's a lovely scan photo! I hope the way you're feeling is just because you're anxious and not because something has happened 🌈

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@theblueflowers I am so so sorry. Life is so unfair sometimes. Sending you so much love xxxx

@Cruz86 I wish that you could share videos on here as the little legs were moving about I really hope it's just anxiety! I've ordered a Doppler thing not sure it's actually going to work
And scan with epu Monday seems so long away! X

@theblueflowers I'm so so sorry. Thinking of you lovely 💞💞 xx

@HoneyLemon29 good luck with your scan 💕 xx
@mrshodgy21 lovely scan pic. Hope Monday comes quickly 💕 xx

@Cruz86 hope your scan eases your anxiety a little 💞 xx

Back from my sons teeth surgery and here she is again 🤦🏽‍♀️

@theblueflowers I'm so sorry 😞 sending love ❤️

Ah that must have been so lovely to see @mrshodgy21 🥰 Your cat just looks like she's protecting you which is lovely.

How did your scan go @HoneyLemon29?

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