BFP after 2 years..

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User1400 · 17/02/2022 08:27

After 2.5 years of TTC, I have finally got my BFP this morning. I was so sure if and when this moment arrived, I would be ecstatic.. but I am terrified something goes wrong. I was vomiting for 24 hours last week but it cleared up over the following days and I put it down to a bug. Now I am anxious that it was morning sickness and it has gone away?

Looking for advice to calm my anxiety

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JMPB · 17/02/2022 08:30

Congratulations 🎉
Probably wasnt morning sickness if before your BFP; it generally doesn’t start that early. Mine started at 4 weeks which is v early.
Try not to stress too much, but it’s hard and everyone does it & has anxiety. I had an early scan at 7.3 weeks for reassurance which helped :)

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User1400 · 17/02/2022 08:33

Thank you @JMPB, my mind is in over drive. Did you request the early scan @ your GP or was it private? Xxx

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JMPB · 18/02/2022 08:34

It was private. They do them earlier but wait till at least 7-8 weeks if you get one (: too many people panicking and worried when baby/heartbeat not seen because there too early xx

bombata2 · 18/02/2022 08:42

Congratulations! I just got my BFP as well after 2 1/2 years of trying to conceive, so I can understand your anxiety.

I had 3 miscarriages before so I understand your anxiety. I would second getting an early scan for your piece of mind. Best at 7 weeks because then you should be hopefully able to see a heartbeat.

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