Alcohol before BFP/ 6.5 weeks

[haymama28]

I definitely had prenatal anxiety and worried about everything and now I know I have post natal anxiety and am extra worried now that I see my precious babe. I worry about her future and if I did anything that could cause her delays. I didn’t find out I was pregnant until 6.5 weeks and right before then had one evening where I had like 3-4 glasses of wine. I was not trying to get pregnant so I wasn’t taking any prenatal or folic acid before conception. She was born perfectly healthy full term and is still gaining weight and hitting all of your measurements. I just can’t help but worry about when she is older and if any of that wine I had will affect her. I know coming on here won’t cure my anxiety but I would love to hear any personal experiences if any of you drank before finding out and how far along you were.

I wouldn't worry a few drinks is not going to harm her , you will worry yourself sick for nothing. I often wonder how any of us are ok when you think of what our parents did when pregnant, drinking , smoking etc and we all turned out fine. I'm not sure I know too many people that didn't at least have a few drinks before the found out they were pregnant and all babies were perfectly fine .