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Two potential fathers

28 replies

1stmamax · 05/11/2021 22:49

Not sure when I conceived, I am exactly 28 weeks , due date 28 January, had sex with guy A beginning of March, then had sex with guy B 16th March - 5th November didn't have my period for 3 months and started 3rd April- 14th April conception date says may 7th, who is the dad

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Nat4392 · 06/11/2021 08:17

If your conception date is 7th May then why are you asking about sex you had in March? It won’t be any of these. Unless this is a typo and you mean May, then it’s guy A.

Soontobe60 · 06/11/2021 08:23

28 weeks takes you back to 28th April. So whoever you had sex with after that date (within a 2 week period) is the father.

1stmamax · 06/11/2021 13:13

@Nat4392

If your conception date is 7th May then why are you asking about sex you had in March? It won’t be any of these. Unless this is a typo and you mean May, then it’s guy A.
How is it not any of them if I'm pregnant? Lol someone had to have done it
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BitterTits · 06/11/2021 13:14

Immaculate conception?

1stmamax · 06/11/2021 13:15

@BitterTits

Immaculate conception?
What does that mean
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EnrouteNOTonroute · 06/11/2021 13:16

Guy B

EdgeOfTheSky · 06/11/2021 13:18

Can you repeat all the dates in list form?

There is some confusion somewhere.

Yogawankonobi · 06/11/2021 13:19

Guy B surely?
Guy A was a month or so early.

Paperyfish · 06/11/2021 13:19

If conception day was may- then can’t be guy a as you hadn’t slept with him since March. Must be guy b.

spotcheck · 06/11/2021 13:20

This reads like a rejected exam question
🤠

Yogawankonobi · 06/11/2021 13:22

‘Immaculate conception?

What does that mean’

Like baby Jesus

nomorefrogs · 06/11/2021 13:27

28 weeks means you conceived the end of April. Which fits with a period mid-month. If you have only been having sexual with B since April then he is the father.

Rainbowheart1 · 06/11/2021 13:30

What?

Podgedodge · 06/11/2021 13:30

How can we tell you?

Cheeseycheeseycheesecheese · 06/11/2021 13:32

So boy guy a and b were in March, but you conceived in May according to dating scans?

That means who ever you had sex with in the 2 week window around 7th May. Who was that, a or b?

MintMatchmaker · 06/11/2021 13:47

Started what 3rd-14th April?

Your post isn't clear OP. Did you only have sex with a once? in March? If so then he can't be the Father.

Twizbe · 06/11/2021 13:50

You've started many threads about this haven't you?

AliceAldridge · 06/11/2021 13:52

Based on the above, it's Guy B.

MatildaIThink · 06/11/2021 13:54

@BitterTits

Immaculate conception?
Immaculate Conception was according to Christianity the conception of Mary, Jesus is claimed to be the virgin birth.
Mamadothehump · 06/11/2021 14:24

This hurts my brain 🤯

statetrooperstacey · 06/11/2021 14:37

Talk through it with the midwives, you won’t be the first, they have a calculator that can narrow it down for you .

Scirocco · 06/11/2021 14:52

Who did you have sex with in early May? They'll be the father.

Guy A's sperm won't have hung around since March, so if that's the only time you had sex with him then it can't be him based on the dates you've given.

girlmom21 · 06/11/2021 15:06

You had sex with Guy A in March, then had a period in April then for pregnant, whilst actively having sex with Guy B.

How do you not know who the father is?

MissMaple82 · 06/11/2021 15:16

Your post makes literally no sense. Get your dates together then we may be able to work out this mess for you

RoseAndRose · 06/11/2021 15:29

For due date of 28 Jan, you conceived about 6 May, and last period would have been around 22 April, but you seem to be saying it was about 3 weeks earlier than that.

But you have irregular (and long) cycles, which might account for that?

So my guess is that the person you were having sex with at the end of April/start of May is the likeliest candidate father.

And someone from March, before your LMP, really doesn't sound likely. Female sperm storage in humans is typically maximum 5-7 days

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