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4th month no luck :(

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Lauralou9 · 14/10/2021 13:37

Hi as the headline says really .. 4th month no luck.. doing everything right using clear blue monitor , preseed, conceive plus . Not drinking etc but nothing .. starting to worry it won’t happen & somethings wrong … I’m 34 in January and worrying this is why :( I have 4 children already but youngest is nearly 11

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Blxo94 · 14/10/2021 13:41

Can I ask what supplements you are taking?

Aside from that 4 months isn't that long, I know this feels long for yourself and it can be so frustrating getting those negatives every month when trying to conceive. Just be kind to yourself and try not stress ❤️

thingymaboob · 14/10/2021 14:00

4 months is absolutely no time at all. You've had children before so you know you're fertile. Have sex every day of your fertile week, that's what worked for us (twice)

Chelyanne · 14/10/2021 14:04

4 months isn't very long. I wouldn't worry until you've been trying for at least 12 months with no joy. Good luck

Viviennemary · 14/10/2021 14:09

I agree. Statistically 4 months is no time at all. Try and be patient. Your age won't be against you in your early 30's and you already have four children. Stop worrying.

Expecttheunexpected2022 · 14/10/2021 14:35

Took me 10 months to concieve my first at age 30. I know it's hard and each month seems like it's never going to happen but it's perfectly normal for it to take a year or more. I think even if all conditions are right then you still only have a 20% chance of falling pregnant each month, it will happen, just give it time..😊

BrownEyedSquirrel · 14/10/2021 14:38

Took us 5 months with our first and I was 29. Hopefully next month is your month! I totally understand the worry that it won't happen as AF arrives each month but it can be perfectly normal for it to take up to a year so try not to worry x Have you done SMEP? This worked for us on the 2nd go. We also used pre seed.

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