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How and when did u tell your work colleagues?

7 replies

Sosolito · 12/09/2021 17:42

Hi there,
I was wondering when and how you told your work colleagues as im feeling v anxious about it. Someone else is ttc and other people in the team are very inquisitive and I dont really want them to stress me asking me lots of questions.
Any tips would be most welcome!
Thanks

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JackJack84 · 12/09/2021 18:06

I had to tell my colleagues the day I found out at 4+4 weeks as I couldn't do a large part of my iob. Not what I would've preferred but safety first! I just said 'I can't do this as I'm with child'.

Geamhradh · 12/09/2021 18:09

I didn't really. (school)
I think I told a few colleague-friends and the deputy head who sorted timetabling out when I had to have a blood test one day.
Kids asked me when I was about 7 months Grin

happytoday73 · 12/09/2021 18:10

Is there any reason like PP that means you need to tell colleagues.. If not I wouldn't tell anyone till at least 12 week scan.
I like PP couldn't do lots of my job.... I therefore rescheduled my diary as couldn't do certain trips.. For other part I had to confess to 1 colleague who volunteered if that task needed to be done!

LouNatics · 12/09/2021 18:12

I waited until 25 weeks.

I said “I’m pregnant”.

Nobody was surprised or bothered particularly.

Scirocco · 12/09/2021 20:04

I waited until about 14 weeks to tell most of my colleagues, but my line manager had known from 4-5 weeks as we needed to get risk assessments etc sorted early.

By 14 weeks it was getting quite hard to hide, so in our team meeting I added an item under 'Staffing' on the agenda and introduced everyone to the new member of the team - "they aren't doing much yet but that's ok because we don't need to pay them". Everyone was really positive about it.

Svensk10 · 12/09/2021 21:03

I told my boss at 11 weeks. I was feeling v unwell and had previously had a miscarriage which she knew about. Thought it was best to tell her as if things didn't work out she would know anyway. I asked her to keep it quiet and told other colleagues after 20 weeks

Dyra · 12/09/2021 23:17

First pregnancy. We were going to do an infectious case in theatre, and they advised that anyone pregnant should leave. So I left.

Second pregnancy. By vomiting noisily in the changing room loo and coming out crying because I was exhausted.

Third pregnancy. Accidentally outed. A colleague was on her last shift before mat leave and we were having a bring and share. Someone had bought in some cured meat and pate. Naturally I wasn't partaking and was unfortunately questioned on it. I couldn't come up with a better answer than "because I can't". Then everyone in ear shot knew.

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