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Early reassurance scan nerves

48 replies

CT96 · 20/08/2021 10:03

Hi,

I had missed miscarriage at 9 weeks in March. I have since conceived again and have booked an early reassurance scan (after a hard think about it for a week).

I wanted the scan a little over 9 weeks but all they could offer me was the day I turned exactly 9 weeks on so I took it. It’s in 3 weeks and I am absolutely a bag of nerves. I don’t think I can cope with the same news of another missed miscarriage. I am 6w1d and have suffered no painful cramps or bleeding/spotting.

Any positive stories or any advice to calm my nerves?

Thank you!

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CMcA21 · 28/08/2021 15:00

@CT96 fingers crossed for us on Tuesday then! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Waterb0ttle · 28/08/2021 15:41

[quote GoodVibesOnlyPlease]**@Bizawit* I scrolled right back through my data to see what happened when I was pregnant with my little boy 🤦‍♀️ @CT96* I'm tempted to take mine off!! I just keep trying to remind myself that there's more chance of things being OK than not but it's so hard to believe 😢 I've got an early scan next Friday, I'm just convinced they're going to tell me there's no heartbeat again 🤦‍♀️ thanks for the replies, feel like I just sound like an absolute nutter to anyone in real life.[/quote]
I hope your scan goes well, please let me know!
I was meant to have mine today but they rang and cancelled due to sonograph illness, so I'm booked for the 4th September now.

GoodVibesOnlyPlease · 28/08/2021 17:50

@Bizawit I am not the fit person I was the first time round unfortunately but it did look like it levelled off at some point. That's what I keep telling myself, the chances of it being OK are far higher than not... I did actually manage to get the basic bloods done by my gp as well so surely I can't have that much bad luck for it to happen 3 times. We've also had a death in the family in the last 2 weeks and they say there has to be a death to be a birth 🙏 honestly I'm actually crackers 🤦‍♀️

GoodVibesOnlyPlease · 28/08/2021 17:51

I will do @Waterb0ttle. Literally going to be the longest week of my life 😫 I bet that was disappointing!!

Waterb0ttle · 28/08/2021 18:20

@GoodVibesOnlyPlease

I will do *@Waterb0ttle*. Literally going to be the longest week of my life 😫 I bet that was disappointing!!
Yeah mine too, we can countdown together 😁 and yeah I was disappointed, looking that the advantages though I'll see more as I'll be nearly 10 weeks by then
CT96 · 31/08/2021 13:05

Just thought I would let you ladies know I had my early scan today!

Baby is measuring right on track at nearly 8 weeks and the heart beat was flickering away!

So glad I went.

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Bizawit · 31/08/2021 13:32

Aww wonderful 🥰🥰. Congratulations OP 🎉☺️

Waterb0ttle · 31/08/2021 13:54

Awh brilliant news 💕 so happy for you

GoodVibesOnlyPlease · 31/08/2021 15:23

Amazing news @CT96 🥰

CT96 · 31/08/2021 19:02

Please update me on your ladies scans whenever you have them! 🥰

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CMcA21 · 31/08/2021 20:14

@CT96 so glad your scan went well.

I had mine today and was 6+3 and we saw a little heartbeat. Crossing my fingers the next 6 weeks go well and we get a successful 12 week scan 🤞🏻❤️

GoodVibesOnlyPlease · 03/09/2021 12:12

We've had our scan today, there was a baby with a heartbeat 😭 so relieved 😌

Waterb0ttle · 03/09/2021 13:42

@GoodVibesOnlyPlease

We've had our scan today, there was a baby with a heartbeat 😭 so relieved 😌
So happy for you 😍 did they say how far along you are?
GoodVibesOnlyPlease · 03/09/2021 13:58

8+3 so a couple of days behind what I expected but nothing drastic. Just a few more weeks to get to 12 weeks now 🙈

Waterb0ttle · 03/09/2021 15:25

Congratulations, hope these works fly by for you 😘

GoodVibesOnlyPlease · 03/09/2021 16:30

Thank you @waterb0ttle, fingers crossed for you tomorrow!!

Waterb0ttle · 03/09/2021 16:59

@GoodVibesOnlyPlease

Thank you *@waterb0ttle*, fingers crossed for you tomorrow!!
Thank you, I will post tomorrow let you know how it went 😁
Waterb0ttle · 04/09/2021 18:26

Hey, I hope your all well! I've just gotten back from my early scan, 9+4 tiny little heart beat ❤️ took my breath away. Most amazing thing ever!!

GoodVibesOnlyPlease · 04/09/2021 19:42

Fab news 🥰 @waterb0ttle

GoodVibesOnlyPlease · 08/09/2021 11:50

How is everyone doing/feeling on here? I've got to be honest I'm having good days and bad days! Can't get passed expecting the worst when it comes to the 12 week scan. Has everyone got their dates for it?

Waterb0ttle · 08/09/2021 12:31

@GoodVibesOnlyPlease

How is everyone doing/feeling on here? I've got to be honest I'm having good days and bad days! Can't get passed expecting the worst when it comes to the 12 week scan. Has everyone got their dates for it?
Hi there, I'm doing really well thank you, I'm alot less worried then before. I have my 12 week scan on the 22nd September it's my husbands birthday 😁. How are you doing? Have you gotten a date for you 12 week scan yet?
GoodVibesOnlyPlease · 08/09/2021 12:55

Just really up and down with it all to be honest! Feel like I can't even dare to get my hopes up still. Luckily we're away for a week next week so that will be a good distraction. Glad you're feeling OK about it! Mines 27th.

Waterb0ttle · 08/09/2021 14:26

@GoodVibesOnlyPlease

Just really up and down with it all to be honest! Feel like I can't even dare to get my hopes up still. Luckily we're away for a week next week so that will be a good distraction. Glad you're feeling OK about it! Mines 27th.
Going away for the week will be a great distraction, I'm currently camping until Friday and I've been here since last Saturday and it's kept my head off things massively. I don't know if this will help but I've gone onto a clothes shop and start adding things to my basket like little bibs and vest etc... That's helped me alot
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