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1st trimester misery

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HTQP2022 · 17/08/2021 10:50

Hi All. Hoping someone can reassure me this is normal. I feel so guilty, we have been trying to 2 years and after a host of medical issues finally pregnant. I've been wanting this for so long and I'm just not enjoying it. I feel bloody miserable. I ache, I'm sleepy, I'm naseuous from morning till night, I throw up every other day, I can't even stand the smell of my husband so I have kept my distance so he doesn't trigger the vom. I've got a few weeks left to go to 12 weeks. Last night he just lost it and told me that he knew I was feeling bad but I need to pull it together. I know I need to but honestly I can't even bend down and get something without feeling bile coming up. I am just a pitiful sloth...

And I see all my friends who have had kids and none of them seem to have been like this. I just feel so weak and stupid but it's not like I can snap out and say don't worry I'm not sick now, I can help round the house like normal.

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
Gistbury · 23/08/2021 18:15

Lying in bed now having been sick in the bath while sitting on the toilet (anyone else wet themselves when they’re sick while pregnant?!) Husband home from work now so threw the children at him and climbed into bed to cry. This is so hard. But it will pass - 11 weeks today so hopefully only 5 weeks to go.

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