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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Could I be?

10 replies

Ruby252021 · 04/08/2021 10:02

Hi, hoping someone can help. I’m 25 &
I’m 5 days late today & and usually clockwork every 4 weeks on the dot. I’m not on any contraception however we use condoms or withdrawal (not legit I know). All tests negative but only cheapies.
My boobs ache a bit and some really really mild cramping (could just be in my mind though!!). Can anyone advise? Is it worth me getting a clear blue? Or waiting a bit longer to test again if nothing happens.
I feel chances are low but there’s still a chance. We’re not trying but either way it doesn’t matter if we were pregnant. Thanks in advance ladies!

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Holly60 · 04/08/2021 10:05

Hi lovely. In the gentlest way possible, if you have periods and you are having sex, there is always a possibility you could be pregnant. If you are 5 days late then a pregnancy would definitely show on a good quality test. If cost is an issue you could make an appointment with your GP who will be able to test your urine. Best of luck

georgarina · 04/08/2021 10:11

Sounds like pregnancy symptoms to me but equally could just be a weird cycle! If the tests are negative I would try a more sensitive one. If that's negative maybe wait it out or you could call the GP?

Ruby252021 · 04/08/2021 10:19

Thanks for getting back to me ladies I really appreciate it! I’m going to TRY and wait it out until Friday/Saturday to hit the week mark & if still nothing I’ll get a clear blue.
My only PMS usually is bad cramps and that’s it I’ve always been lucky in that front which is why the boob pain is a bit of a different one for me!
Pregnancy is definitely a blessing but would be a big shock!

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Mamamamasaurus · 04/08/2021 10:38

Pregnancy shouldn't really be a 'big shock' based on you using zero contraception beyond withdrawal. As PP said - you're having periods (so you're presumably ovulating) and having unprotected sex.

Stick with FRER tests, they're far and above other tests which aren't as sensitive.

Moominmiss · 04/08/2021 10:39

Have you had either of your COVID jabs recently? I’ve seen a lot of posts where it has thrown some ladies cycles off for a month or 2.

At 5 days late I’d be expecting to see something on a test by now, but equally could just be that you need a better quality test.

Greenmarmalade · 04/08/2021 10:42

Covid jabs have messed with my cycle for 2 months.

Greenmarmalade · 04/08/2021 10:43

If you’re really using ‘withdrawal’ as contraception then take folic acid daily

DoodleBelle · 04/08/2021 10:45

I’d get a more sensitive test and try again. Also as PP said if you’ve had a COVID jab recently that could be the reason for a late period.

Ruby252021 · 04/08/2021 10:56

My first jab was start of jan second start of March and my period was heavy after but no change in the cycle times itself.
Can I ask why folic acid if using withdrawl?
I feel like I’m learning new things already on here!

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JackJack84 · 04/08/2021 11:11

@Ruby252021

My first jab was start of jan second start of March and my period was heavy after but no change in the cycle times itself. Can I ask why folic acid if using withdrawl? I feel like I’m learning new things already on here!
The withdrawal method is only about 80% effective so you should be taking folic acid as there's a chance of pregnancy.
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