oh my goodness, pregnant again

[jobekal]

with number 4, third baby is nearly 6 months, eldest not yet 4

Congratulations! Will be challenging I expect (I will have a mere three under 3.8 next May) but will be so worth it. Get some rest!!!

i am ok about being pregnant but terrible realtionship and housing problems, cant imagine having NHS care after IM with others but IM not taking on any more, still traumatised and upset about last birth, its another chance to have the birth i want but if i have another birth like last will feel even worse than i do now

have no friends or family around and had very disabling SPD last time

Oh well!

I'm sorry I didn't mean to sound flippant about it....sounds like you've had a hard time. Keep posting, bet there are others with similar experiences, anyone? Take care x

thanks sleepycat, i really am very happy about the pregnancy i dont want it to sound like i'm not its just i may end up in temp accomodation therefore no home birth, husband is causing lots of stress, dont know whether i'm coming or going as he goes then comes back again and again, benefits in his name but meant to be for both of us, but he keeps it all, asks me for money, moaned as i wouldnt buy him a remote control dalek for goodness sake, i pay all the bills and get all food etc out of child benefit and tax credit, he got full housing benefit but expected me to top up rent by 50 a month.

anyway, i really really didnt want to moan, just started this thread as anted to tell someone i'm pregnant without disclosing to people i know
i am happy about baby honestly

will put my pro breastfeeding attitude to a test, still feeding the others!