🤰🏼Due end of March/Beginning of April🤰🏾

[MyMabel]

There’s already a March thread but everyone seems so far along already with people
Due at the beginning of March.

I’ve estimated I’m due around 29th of March so thought I’d make a thread for that! Anyone else?
Ive just come back from holiday, I took the tests the first day we got there to check if it could enjoy a cocktail or two.. ended up with mocktails instead!

How are we feeling? Any symptoms yet?

[quote Dyra]**@Gotu* As long as you're comfortable, there's no reason to abstain. As @Bluebell88* says, cramping is common. Also, because there's increased blood flow in the area, spotting is far more common. I had cramping during sex in my successful pregnancy, and bleeding in my unsuccessful one. I'm already pink spotting in this one, so imo better not to risk anything. I'm also plain not in the mood.[/quote]
Aw ok I had a panic there 🙈

@Shad0w

Hi all, just wanted to come back and update that unfortunately I was found after unknown location pregnancy to be ectopic. Yesterday I was given methotrexate to dissolve the pregnancy. It's been an awful couple of weeks but we have known for a week now that if wasnt looking good.

Just wanted to wish you all the best in your pregnancies xx

I'm so sorry to hear that, hope your doing aswell as can be 💕 xxx

@Laurenxx94

Hey ladies just checking , I've made a little WhatsApp group if anyone wants to join privately send me your number! So easy to Keep on top of messages x

I would like to be part of this as I struggle to keep up on here 🙈 where do I send the number? X

[quote Bluebell88]@Gotu everything I’ve read says it’s completely safe but I’m a worrier and can’t help but panic about things. I’ve read that cramping after orgasm is normal but for me I’d rather avoid feeling that especially as it makes me worry.[/quote]
I was Googling like mad yesterday trying to make sure it was safe,started panicking myself 🙈

So sorry to hear your news @Shad0w. Hope you're doing ok. Give yourself time to rest and heal.

Thank you

So sorry @Shad0w wishing you the best of luck going forward ❤️

@Gotu private message on the website xx

@Shad0w so sorry to hear your news

@Shad0w I'm so so sorry. Sending you so much love. Be kind to yourself x

So sorry to hear that @Shad0w - must be heartbreaking for you, at least it’s been caught early enough before too much physical damage hopefully. Take it easy on yourself xxx

I’ve got scanxiety. Bad. It was booked for Friday (6+5) and I got a call earlier to say they needed to cancel it but can do it tomorrow at 6+4. I’ve had two losses since my daughter and this is a clomid baby (I feel like they need a babygrow saying that I bang on about it so much!). I am sure I’d be feeling this bad anyway but my last loss was a mmc picked up at an early scan and I’m completely terrified. Can’t tell how much of the sick feeling is morning sickness and how much is anxiety. It’s not until 5pm either so I know I’ll be spending the whole day going mad.

Am torn between thinking enjoy it as the world may fall apart tomorrow, or thinking worrying won’t change it so be excited or thinking don’t get excited, protect your heart or thinking be bloody excited you might see a heartbeat or thinking but if you do have a heartbeat tomorrow it could go the next day or it could be an inconclusive scan. Basically too much going round my head and I can’t even have a glass of wine to help me relax 🤣🤣🤣

Not sure anyone can help but needed to type the thoughts in my head out! Unless someone can knock me out and wake me up when I’ve got a healthy baby in my arms 😂

I'm so so sorry @Shad0w ❤️ I hope you have plenty of support around you xxx

@ItsAlice I'm sorry for your mmc. I had one too earlier this year - first pregnancy, everything seemed to be going great, it was an absolute shock. I'm booked next week for a 7+4 scan. It does feel like I'm just doomed to hear the same words again, and I know I'll probably be ill woth stress beforehand. I think you can't do much at all. The scan is a good idea, one way or the other. You have a majority chance of a successful pregnancy. You are doing your best. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!

@ItsAlice

I’ve got scanxiety. Bad. It was booked for Friday (6+5) and I got a call earlier to say they needed to cancel it but can do it tomorrow at 6+4. I’ve had two losses since my daughter and this is a clomid baby (I feel like they need a babygrow saying that I bang on about it so much!). I am sure I’d be feeling this bad anyway but my last loss was a mmc picked up at an early scan and I’m completely terrified. Can’t tell how much of the sick feeling is morning sickness and how much is anxiety. It’s not until 5pm either so I know I’ll be spending the whole day going mad.

Am torn between thinking enjoy it as the world may fall apart tomorrow, or thinking worrying won’t change it so be excited or thinking don’t get excited, protect your heart or thinking be bloody excited you might see a heartbeat or thinking but if you do have a heartbeat tomorrow it could go the next day or it could be an inconclusive scan. Basically too much going round my head and I can’t even have a glass of wine to help me relax 🤣🤣🤣

Not sure anyone can help but needed to type the thoughts in my head out! Unless someone can knock me out and wake me up when I’ve got a healthy baby in my arms 😂

@ItsAlice I feel you. I have my early scan booked for tomorrow (6+5) about 4:15pm and can't work out whether I'm excited or terrified or both! Fortunately I'm in work all day so hopefully my mind will be kept busy! I am truly sorry about your previous loss. Try to remember that whether or not you have a scan, it can't and won't change the path of this pregnancy and I hope very much that you get positive news and go on to have a healthy and happy little one ❤️🤞🏻 Will be thinking of you tomorrow xx

So so sorry @Shad0w 😞❤️ I hope you are doing as well as you can be xx

@ItsAlice @GeorgiaMcGraw oh it's so difficult I feel you so much 🙏 hope it's not too long of a day! I'm the same I just keep preparing myself for the worst it's awful how common miscarriages are but also good (in a strange way) that we know that we aren't the only ones going through this and can support each other , I really hope all goes well! I have a scan at 11 but I'm still early they're just hoping to see a yolk sac 🙏

@Nervyy good luck also for your scan today ❤️

[quote Laurenxx94]**@ItsAlice* @GeorgiaMcGraw* oh it's so difficult I feel you so much 🙏 hope it's not too long of a day! I'm the same I just keep preparing myself for the worst it's awful how common miscarriages are but also good (in a strange way) that we know that we aren't the only ones going through this and can support each other , I really hope all goes well! I have a scan at 11 but I'm still early they're just hoping to see a yolk sac 🙏

@Nervyy good luck also for your scan today ❤️[/quote]
Thank you, and I do think this support is invaluable. Good luck to you @laurenxx94 and @nervyy with your scans today

Thanks so much for your support, I’m still a crazy lady this morning but just got to get it done! Hope your scans go well @Laurenxx94 and @Nervyy - it’s a busy day for ultrasounds on this group isn’t it! I just keep thinking that this evening is either going to be the best or worst evening for a long time and it’s not knowing that’s the crazy part. We can do it!!!!

Good luck with your scans today @ItsAlice, @Nervyy and @Laurenxx94!

@Dyra @ItsAlice @GeorgiaMcGraw thanks ladies!

The nausea has hit me this morning really bad 🤢 haven't been sick but I feel like I'm about too! Never known it to start this early , I'm actually hoping this is a good sign how sad 😂😂

Good luck everyone! I've got one too - 7w plus a day I think.

@ItsAlice

Thanks so much for your support, I’m still a crazy lady this morning but just got to get it done! Hope your scans go well *@Laurenxx94 and @Nervyy* - it’s a busy day for ultrasounds on this group isn’t it! I just keep thinking that this evening is either going to be the best or worst evening for a long time and it’s not knowing that’s the crazy part. We can do it!!!!

Good luck Alice, sorry I missed you off! It's scan central today! I hope everyone (including anyone else I missed) gets great results today 👍

Good luck to you too @Mazblue86!

Good luck everyone for your scans today! @Mazblue86 @ItsAlice @Laurenxx94 hoping we all get positive results!! ❤️🤞🏻

And thank you everyone for the well wishes! I am super nervous (particularly as I think it'll be an internal) and it's my first pregnancy so genuinely just wishing and hoping that everything is okay 🥰 love this little one so much already ❤️🤞🏻x