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I'm pregnant, help

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Faye99x · 14/07/2021 08:51

I have just found out that I am pregnant. I did a clear blue so roughly 4 weeks pregnant. This is not planned at all and not the right time.
I don't have periods and haven't done for 3 and a half years abs always thought I wasn't able to have children unless I went down the IVF route. But I'm just not ready and I haven't told my partner yet.

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Faye99x · 14/07/2021 22:40

@BrilliantBetty

If you're not thinking of a termination. And don't want to have a baby. Does that leave you with adoption, if the pregnancy materialises in to a healthy born baby. I'm not sure what the other options are.

I know it's really scary and a shock. I had my first in my early twenties. It wasn't planned but six years on it is ok. It wasn't a disaster and it didn't stop me doing things I wanted to do. My life was turned upside down but we've had some brilliant times and she is adored. It often never feels like 'the right time'. But it sounds like you're in a stable situation and might not get this chance again. I hope you have some support IRL.

I think now the initial shock has gone it's okay. I know we would be fine with the little one. And we are in a position to. Just a shock x
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