Hi , umm so I'm nearly 41 and found out I'm preg , I don't no what to do , I have rheumatoid arthritis and suffer with anxiety and depression , I have 3 children on my own , I am in a relationship but only been 6 months . I struggle to provide for the 3 I have , I'm so confused , I want this baby more than anythin but in the real world how am I gonna cope :-( . Only nice comments plz , I don't need any digs .