When did I conceive

[rolee12]

Please help! My last period was 29th may and I have very regular. I had sex on 4th June (was a mistake and I don't fully remember) I am ashamed, but then had regular sex with my partner from 7th June and I now pregnant. When did I most likely conceive?

Could easily be either I'm afraid. Sperm can live for 5 days and as I'm guessing you don't know when you ovulated?

Also, I'm really alarmed that you don't fully remember the sex on the 4th. Could you even give consent?

He is an old friend and we were both very drunk he said he can't fully remember either, would an early scan show me the dates?

The month before I ovulated on day 15 as I took a test

Was 29th May the first day of your last period?

You’ll never be able to work it out from dates. You’re going to need a DNA test, either before or after birth.

I’m nearly 15 weeks pregnant, know exactly when I ovulated and had sex, and have had three scans - they’ve all had different EDDs and therefore different conception dates. The NHS scan that sets your “final” EDD says we either had sex on a day we didn’t, or that I conceived three days after I ovulated.

Are you okay? I have a friend who had two potential fathers - she told both, which was unpleasant but went better than she’d expected, and then had a DNA test done after birth. There is also the option to have it during pregnancy, but she couldn’t afford it at the time. The man that everyone said was statistically less likely to be the Dad was, in her case, but they’ve got a good co-parenting relationship now; and she’s stayed with her partner.

All the best

Unless you normally have very short cycles it will probably be your partners.

No way of knowing until baby is here for a DNA.
As pp sperm have a 5 day life span.