Pregnant and single support

[Ayy92]

Anyone else pregnant and single. Needing some support with this journey

Hey!!

I hope you are still here! I am completely in the same boat…just found out and boyfriend has basically in so many words said he’d leave if didn’t abort.

Hope you are holding up ok xx

Hi so I’m currently 9+4 pregnant and to cut a long story short, my (ex)partner and I were together almost 3 years on and off , we had talked about having a baby at some point so I’d come off my contraception and we were basically thinking if it happened it happened . Fast forward a
Few months and we end up splitting up then a month after that I discovered I was pregnant, so I told him as I was in shock and my initial thought was that I couldn’t go through with the baby as we weren’t together and it wasn’t the right time, I booked an appointment to go see about a termination and found out I was 7 weeks and after that appointment I decided I couldn’t go through. With the termination it just didn’t feel right and I would regret it (I’m 36 and already have a 6 year old to a previous relationship) my parents have said they will support me whatever I decide to do, but my ex on the other hand is being so horrible saying that he doesn’t want it and that I’m trying to trap him and that there’s laws against that ( I’ve made it clear I don’t want the relationship and I’m happy to do this alone ) am I in the wrong for going with my heart on how I feel ? I’m at a total loss I really want this baby and know I can manage fine on my own with no support from him

@Anonomous1234

Hi so I’m currently 9+4 pregnant and to cut a long story short, my (ex)partner and I were together almost 3 years on and off , we had talked about having a baby at some point so I’d come off my contraception and we were basically thinking if it happened it happened . Fast forward a Few months and we end up splitting up then a month after that I discovered I was pregnant, so I told him as I was in shock and my initial thought was that I couldn’t go through with the baby as we weren’t together and it wasn’t the right time, I booked an appointment to go see about a termination and found out I was 7 weeks and after that appointment I decided I couldn’t go through. With the termination it just didn’t feel right and I would regret it (I’m 36 and already have a 6 year old to a previous relationship) my parents have said they will support me whatever I decide to do, but my ex on the other hand is being so horrible saying that he doesn’t want it and that I’m trying to trap him and that there’s laws against that ( I’ve made it clear I don’t want the relationship and I’m happy to do this alone ) am I in the wrong for going with my heart on how I feel ? I’m at a total loss I really want this baby and know I can manage fine on my own with no support from him

Just wanted to say I'm in a similar position...single, pregnant at 34 with second baby (different fathers). Hope it all works out for you and I'm glad your parents are being supportive- mine currently aren't. X

'Laws against that'?? What an idiot. It's your body and your choice. If he really didn't want a baby he shouldn't have had unprotected sex with you! Good luck.

Thank you x