TTC

[ComeOnPeople]

Just looking for a little hand hold...

Currently in the middle of Miscarriage/waiting to see a negative again and my next period.

Anyone else in the same boat ? and having thoughts and feelings of wishing time away, wanting to move on, grieving /being in the moment and just excited ( use that term loosely as I'm terrified!) and nervous for another round of TTC....

Ps. Good luck to anyone TTC

Hi lovely. @ComeOnPeople.

I couldn’t read and run, I just wanted to try and comfort you as best I can at this time. I’m not currently going through a miscarriage, but I have had one. I, like you, eagerly awaited my negative test. I conceived my second cycle after my mc and I’m now 16 weeks.

I just wanted to say that it’s the most horrendous I have ever felt, but it does get easier. No new pregnancy can take away the pain of a loss, I just kept reminding myself that my body knew something I didn’t, and knew the pregnancy wasn’t viable. The TTC journey after loss is nerve wracking so just be kind to yourself. When you do conceive, just take a huge breathe, talk to your parent and just take each day as it comes.

I purchased Zoe clark-coates’ books - the baby loss guide, and pregnancy after loss. They were a huge help. Sending you lots of love xxx

@Summersun001 thank you SO much for your kind words. It's really really reassuring to read you not only conceived so fast but your little button is growing.
I agree I do know my body knew what it was doing, I trust it can also conceive again. I just feel in such a rush yet I'm petrified of when the time comes. Very conflicted but thank you for your words, like I said, really reassuring and I'm sorry for the loss you also suffered x