Found out I’m pregnant with our 3rd child and we weren’t trying. DH had a slip up a week before ovulation and we took ages with our other DC so thought I would be unlikely and first time we have ever been this silly.
I’m so shocked and not excited like previous pregnancies I’m freaking out a bit. Concerns are:
- what if I can’t give my older children the attention they need there will be a 2 year age gap from the youngest
- we have a big enough house but will need a new car
- nursery fees will cripple is for 4 months until the 30 free hours kick in.
- I’m not sure I’m ready
But then I’m so scared what if I decide we do want a third in a years time is that just awful to even consider an abortion. My heads all over the place and I feel like I can’t talk to anyone