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What to do, keep or not

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Smith1995 · 10/03/2021 05:53

I am 25 years old my boyfriend is 27.
We are in the process of buying a house and both hwve good jobs.
We have been together 9 months
I just found out I was pregnant and really cannot make a decision at first I was 100% having a termination but now I don’t know.
My boyfriend was dead against it at first and I told him I felt pressured into making that decision he wanted but now he’s changed and has calmed down and said he’ll do whatever abs stand by me either way

Now I completely have no idea what to do?
My life didn’t plan me to have kids right now and we had life plans!
I have a massive family also.

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interest12 · 10/03/2021 06:11

You don't have to have kids now. Do it when you're ready and sure of it. There's absolutely no reason to have children before you are ready. Just take the pill and move on with your life, career, new relationship

MaMaD1990 · 10/03/2021 06:25

What are you thinking about that is stopping you from making a decision? It could be good for you to list your worries out to clear your thoughts. To be totally honest, this is a decision only you can can make. It's good that your partner is now supporting you. The only advice I would give is not to be too hasty (with either keeping the baby or not). A baby is for life (duh!) and it'll make huge changes to the lives you lead. I suppose you need to weigh up if you want a baby right now, or to wait and enjoy your life plans until the time is truly right (if you want children at all of course). Sorry this isn't particularly helpful but I hope you come to a decision you're comfortable with.

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