Unplanned pregnancy

[Sam2358]

Hey, so I have recently just found out I’m
Expecting my 3rd 5/6 weeks, I am 35. I have been on the pill for the last 8years and came off as completely lost my sex drive and even though we was careful (not careful enough!!)
I had one period and then fell pregnant!
I already have two daughters 13 and nearly 9 so a massive age gap!!!!😱
I am happily married also to their dad.
I have my own business and so does hubby even though we are closed at mo due to covid19. I am booked for a phone consultation on Sunday to discuss abortion this really saddens me and my hubby but we are not sure if we can cope with a 3rd financially and also what a shock it will be a as our daughters are so independent now, we have a good social life and it will
Feel like we are going back 🙈 but we keep going over our decision to abort. I run a beauty salon so it scares me how I would cope!. Has anyone else been in this situation? Xx

I'm in the same position as you sort of. I'm 25 my partner 30. He works with his dad and I work as a private housekeeper(not what I want to do for the rest of my life) we already have a daughter aged 5 and things have started to be less demanding as my daughter is very independent! We've just found out we're pregnant and I keep going back and forth in my decision whether right now is the right time/can we afford it(nursery) and going back to sleepless nights. Sorry I can't give you and answers but I am feeling the exact same as you! I have my telephone about abortion on the 2nd of feb

I just took a test this morning and it's come back positive...big shock...it's out of date (one I had from last pregnancy) so hoping it's a false positive. I have two DS (5 in March, 2 in May) and I am 40 years old! My DH and I had discussed that we didn't want anymore and he talked about the snip but never got round to it. I know he will expect me to have an abortion but I don't know how I feel about that. I suffer from PMDD so on fluoxetine which I would have to come off ASAP (think I must be about 4 weeks pregnant if test is correct). I hope your telephone consultation goes well, I guess that is what my next step will be.