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Pregnant at 43 and stunned

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aboutbloodytime123 · 14/01/2021 22:38

Just that really! Realised today that my period was 9 days late. But I think I am perimenopausal because in recent months it's not been regular. Not even sure what drove me to do a test this time. But I did (twice!) And omg.
This is my third pregnancy, my partner's first. We are both in a bit of shock. We weren't trying, but I have been off the pill for a couple of years. Was pretty certain baby days were behind me for various reasons. My eldest DC is 10!
Just need a handhold please x

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feistymumma · 16/01/2021 17:17

Congratulations! Same thing here, found out I was pregnant and I am 44! Was even on the waiting list for an hysterectomy due to heavy periods....the irony. You will be absolutely fine OP, welcome to the over 40's and pregnant club

aboutbloodytime123 · 16/01/2021 19:22

@feistymumma oh wow! Congratulations to you too,thank you very much, it seems I am in excellent company 😁

@thefoz thanks and congrats to you too, DP is 47 and worried that he is too old....!

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Moo678 · 16/01/2021 20:56

Congratulations OP. I’m 40 next week and 19 wks pregnant. My eldest is 11. I have a toddler too and the big age gap has been fab. I’m sure you will do just fine once the shock wears off Flowers

notsureconfused · 17/01/2021 00:14

I'm currently 35 weeks with baby no.3 and I'm also 43. My older DCs are 13 and 16, both the result of IVF after years of trying...so I never considered for a minute that I'd have a natural pregnancy at this stage! It was a huge shock to me and my DH and I'm not sure we were thrilled at first - but we are so excited for this little ones arrival now and couldn't be happier. Good luck to you.

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