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Did you think you were out then got a BFP?

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qiwueowhskwjwk · 14/01/2021 18:41

Hello Smile me again!

I did a previous thread (panicking during TWW)

And here I am again - panicking during TWW!

I test tomorrow so should calm down but I feel like I’ve heard people say “I just had a feeling” when they got their BFP

I can’t say I’ve got a ‘feeling’ as I’m always thinking “but it could be negative and you got your hopes up for nothing”.

I don’t think I’ll ever have a ‘feeling’ that I am as I’m quite anxious and these past few days I’d say I’ve had what’s close to a feeling but anytime I think of it I always shoot my thoughts down.

Any of you felt like this then got your BFP? Or thought you were completely out then got BFP?

I do feel like this could be our month, hope I’m correct.

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allthingssparkly · 14/01/2021 18:48

@qiwueowhskwjwk I'm in the same boat, I think now it's getting closer to the time AF is due I'm in 2 mins as to whether I'll get my BFP or not. AF due this weekend so I'm holding off testing and trying to keep myself busy.

Fingers crossed for you!

allthingssparkly · 14/01/2021 18:48

@qiwueowhskwjwk minds*

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qiwueowhskwjwk · 14/01/2021 19:02

@allthingssparkly it’s so hard isnt it! I feel like this week has been sooooo long

Hope it’s your month, sending baby dust!Smile

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FTM24 · 14/01/2021 19:06

I had a feeling.. that it would be another negative test and it wasn't! Good luck OP Grin

allthingssparkly · 14/01/2021 19:09

@qiwueowhskwjwk it does seem like it's been a long week, glad its Friday tomorrow though 🤩 sending good luck wishes to you!

Whyarewewaiting · 14/01/2021 19:12

I thought I was this month. My period was due yesterday and I’ve just had what I think is implantation bleeding (I’ve had it with all my previous pregnancies). I’m too scared to test and will wait until tomorrow to see if the bleeding changes from brown smear to a period!

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qiwueowhskwjwk · 14/01/2021 19:25

@allthingssparkly thank you so much lovely and thank you @FTM24 Smile

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qiwueowhskwjwk · 14/01/2021 19:26

@Whyarewewaiting hope it’s implantation bleeding and doesn’t go to a full period for you!

Good luck

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happylittlechick · 14/01/2021 19:30

People don't have feelings. I had the 'feeling' so many times and was wrong. People who claim to have had the 'feeling' forget all the times they were wrong.

HopingForOurRainbowBaby · 14/01/2021 19:47

I'd like to think so, but I'm pretty sure we've missed our window by about 4 days. LDR so I've only being able to see my OH when he's come over my way with work. I've been religiously checking my BBT since Saturday and seen it fall now start to rise again, had a few niggling ovulation pains but no ewcm so I've a feeling this month isn't going to be our month and counting the 5 days since we last saw each other today is the last day for anything to happen.

HopingForOurRainbowBaby · 14/01/2021 20:02

Oops that was meant to say I'd like to think we weren't out!!

DiabeticFirstBaby · 14/01/2021 20:22

I thought we were out the month we got pregnant, we had only had sex twice in fertile period and then around time period was due i had some light brown spotting (how my period usually starts) so thought we were out and I actually made a GP appointment for the week after as we had been trying for 7 months and i'm 36 so wanted some tests doing.
Two days later i took my bra off and my boobs hurt which is unusual for me and the next morning I realised that my period hadn't actually started so i took the one test i had left in drawer and got a strong positive straight away! Really wasn't what we were expecting but super happy! 24 weeks tomo with a little girl! Good luck! 🤞🏻

Issygray · 14/01/2021 21:22

So I was sure that it was my month In December and when my period didn’t show on the 3rd I took a test but got a BFN. Continued getting BFN’s for two weeks, after which I gave up. No period for over a month so on the 5th of January I thought to take my last clear blue before making an appointment with the GP and got a BFP! Honestly I don’t know what happened. Booked a private ultrasound for the 6th and confirmed that I am in fact 6+1 which is off two weeks. I must have ovulated late that’s the only explanation right?

2020quelhorreur · 14/01/2021 21:25

I had no hopeful feelings or sense whatsoever and a negative test at 12DPO. Was properly shocked!

allthingssparkly · 15/01/2021 11:24

I have a feeling I'm out but AF isn't due until tomorrow, so I'll wait to test then unless it makes an appearance. I have had very mild symptoms during some of the TWW but today they seem to have vanished 🤷‍♀️🤞

jessi60 · 15/01/2021 14:17

Yep! I counted myself out as I had bad campylobacter food poisoning and was ill for 2 weeks. Was my second cycle since coming off my implant and it was CD 37 with no period when my last was only 28 days, I had a few negative tests between CD 30-32 so just thought I was having a irregular long cycle with coming on contraception and being unwell. Then I did another on CD 37 and it was positive. Was very shocked! X

jessi60 · 15/01/2021 14:19

@Issygray I’m similar. I’m 7 weeks +2 today based on an early scan I had but my last period makes me 10 weeks! Means my cycle would of been longer and I ovulated later. All abit confusing 😂😂 x

Waitingforbabypage · 15/01/2021 14:22

I thought I was out. I was cd54 and literally only did a test to see if actually seeing a negative test would kickstart my brain in making me have a period.
Got a shock when it came up positive! 😂

Issygray · 15/01/2021 15:56

@jessi60 oh wow I am exactly 7+2 today as well from my early scan 😀 how are you feeling? X

jessi60 · 15/01/2021 17:15

@Issygray I feel fine. Which has me worried 😂 i did have mega sore boobs and can only wear sports bras but it’s settled abit now. If anything made abit more tired but that’s it. What about you? Xx

bleachblondemom · 15/01/2021 17:27

I had no symptoms whatsoever and thought I was out. All the ‘signs’ of early pregnancy I read about online, I had none of them. During the TWW I was obsessed with checking my cervix hoping it would be the ‘right’ position with the ‘right’ kind of cervical mucus, but it wasn’t so I thought I was out. Turns out it all meant nothing and I was pregnant anyway.

Issygray · 15/01/2021 18:01

@jessi60 apart from being hungry all the time and tired much more than normal all good thanks 🙏

Mimba1 · 15/01/2021 18:13

All of my PG I have got really out of breath climbing stairs... not a usual symptom of that time of the month. After 3 years TTC and 2MC I stopped testing before 5 weeks. Expensive, disappointing and I didn't want to know if I'd had a CP. This PG though I tested at 3+5 because I was so out of breath on a hilly walk and got the faintest of faint lines which progressed to a BFP within 2-3 days. Might've been coincidence though!

Moo678 · 15/01/2021 18:45

I thought I was out this pregnancy. We’d not had sex at the right time and I got sore boobs about a week before my period was due which is a classic PMT sign for me. Started feeling nauseous about 3 days before period was due though - did a test and it was positive.

tigerbread20 · 15/01/2021 18:49

Honestly every month I had 'that feeling' for 6 months straight, every month was BFN.
Last month I was sure I was out, we'd only dtd once 5 days before ovulation and I had NONE of my normal 'symptoms' like sore boobs etc so had written the month off. It was only when I checked my cycle tracker to check my next fertile wi Dow I realised I was 4 days late and had my BFP!
Seems so crazy I'd been so obsessed about symptom spotting, early testing etc and then it all goes out the window the cycle that works for us!

Good luck