Fear of early miscarrying

[Jayjay1993]

Hi all!

I’ve started this thread to get some advice and hopefully help lots of ladies out.

I am sooooo scared of having a MC. I had an early MC last month and am now here pregnant again at 5w1d. I am testing daily to track how dark the lines are, I’m symptom checking every hour and I’m rushing to the toilet every hour to check for blood. I’m also spending all hours on the internet! My symptoms (sore boobs) was bad last week but now seems to have nearly gone.

How do we make it better? How do we stop worrying? At what point can we begin to feel happy about our pregnancy without worrying so much?

Anyone else got any tips or in the same boat?

@WolfMother326 your words today completely resonated with me. We’ve got to believe in our own bodies! You’re so right!

@Bubbles1st I’m just behind you then! I’ll keep my fingers crossed for us both.

@Daffodil21bloods sound a good idea. But I’m worried I’ll be wasting peoples time at the doctors with Covid... and would they do that in England? I know it seems like they do in America when I read forumns.. just not sure what I’d say to a dr to get them done?!

@Jayjay1993 I'm in Scotland and they did it. I did have a tiny bit of pink when I wiped and I explained my history (3 mcs) so that may be why. But it's worth an ask? I guess it depends on the covid cases in your area etc

Just an update! I’m now 6w+4d and everything seems to be going well!

@Jayjay1993 amazing news! You must be so relieved x