First pregnancy-doesn’t feel real yet

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Hi! First time poster here, I found out a few days ago I’m pregnant for the first time. The test said 2-3 weeks so the GP said that was 4 weeks in their terms. I took 4 tests - all positive very quickly . My only symptom so far is sore boobs. I was wondering when did it start to feel like you were pregnant ? When will I start to get more symptoms ? Apart from the no period and pregnancy positives, it doesn’t feel like it’s actually real. Will I feel like this until the scan at 12 weeks? I just want to feel a little different at least - so it sinks in a bit more. if that makes sense . Thank you (sorry if it sounds silly - it’s all so new to me) x

Congratulations OP!

So exciting. I'm also pregnant for the first time (17 weeks) and I felt a similiar way to you when I found out. You will probably get first trimester symptoms in the next few weeks, so that will probably make it feel a bit more real. I'd say, for me, it has been a gradual process so far of realising - I am actually pregnant, this is real! A few things that stand out to me:

• telling loved ones makes it feel more real, when you're ready to do that
• 12 week scan is amazing, you will see you really do have a tiny baby inside you
• starting to show (usually around 16-20 weeks for FTM so I gather), no second guessing then!

Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy!

Sore boobs immediately and disturbed sleep. Feeling sick etc didn't start to 7 weeks plus and lasted until 13 weeks. Easier said than done but try and be reassured with boobs and don't wish for other symptoms yet as once I had em I was miserable. It's odd though you can't help but want the reassurance!

Congratulations to you too, it’s all so new isn’t it. I’m glad it’s not just me, I keep wanting to take more tests just because I can’t quite believe it !

I can’t wait till the scan / I definitely will believe it after that!

I’m very very small! 5’1 and 7 stone so when I start to show I’ll definitely feel it. We always joke about my food babies after a Sunday roast !

I know I’ll probably regret wishing I felt more symptoms but atm I just feel like I’m watching a tv show of someone else’s life. I’ve never had anyone close to me / family be pregnant so I have nothing to compare it to.

I think with not being able to go to the GP because of COVID made it feel a little less real too.

I will update again once I do start feeling different haha xx

Congratulations! I’m 18 weeks and still don’t feel pregnant, counting myself lucky as some friends have been so unwell! Xx

@CharlieD2020

Congratulations OP!

So exciting. I'm also pregnant for the first time (17 weeks) and I felt a similiar way to you when I found out. You will probably get first trimester symptoms in the next few weeks, so that will probably make it feel a bit more real. I'd say, for me, it has been a gradual process so far of realising - I am actually pregnant, this is real! A few things that stand out to me:

• telling loved ones makes it feel more real, when you're ready to do that
• 12 week scan is amazing, you will see you really do have a tiny baby inside you
• starting to show (usually around 16-20 weeks for FTM so I gather), no second guessing then!

Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy!

Hi Charlie! I did reply to you above, I'm just new to the message boards so I wasn't sure if you'd get a notification - just quoting you so you'll see it haha xx

@Littlebee1990

Congratulations! I’m 18 weeks and still don’t feel pregnant, counting myself lucky as some friends have been so unwell! Xx

Thank you - hmm I guess it's random who or what you'll get x

@serialplanner

Sore boobs immediately and disturbed sleep. Feeling sick etc didn't start to 7 weeks plus and lasted until 13 weeks. Easier said than done but try and be reassured with boobs and don't wish for other symptoms yet as once I had em I was miserable. It's odd though you can't help but want the reassurance!

I'm sure I will kick myself for wishing more upon myself - It just seems unbelievable that this is happening - all in good time I suppose

I still feel like this at 16+4 weeks🙈

I have had awful sickness since about 6 weeks and still have it now, at it's worst I was throwing up anywhere between 10-15 times a day, it's definitely a bit better now but still feeling nauseas all day and being sick at least 2/3 times a day. So definitely be careful what you wish for in terms of symptoms.

We had a scan at 6 weeks, 7 weeks and 9 weeks privately (as we had a previous miscarriage and a bit of pain early on so was for reassurance) then had the 12 week scan at the hospital and we had another private scan a couple of days ago and found out we are having a little boy! It still doesn't feel real to me and I am definitely showing a bump now and can feel my stomach is harder. I'm hoping it feels a bit more real once I can feel kicks etc. If not, I don't think it will until the baby comes🙈😂

Congratulations on your pregnancy🥰🎉

It didn't really feel real for me in my first pregnancy even after the 20 week scan :D Despite feeling movements regularly and a small bump appearing. Now I'm 23 weeks into my second pregnancy, and start to feel quite pregnant since a few weeks, when my bump appeared properly. But even 2nd time around, didnt feel that pregnant until 17-18 weeks. Have had mild symptoms both times and havent showed that early either. Count myself lucky

Honestly feel like it never feels real! It's the strangest feeling ever. I'm 25 weeks pregnant and haven't really had a lot of symptoms so far so I feel "normal" quite a lot of the time, but after a scan you definitely feel pregnant.

I'm 31 weeks, getting kicked by baby, sorting out nursery and equipment etc and it still doesn't XD My partner said when am I planning on packing my hospital bag - I haven't even thought about it as it just doesn't feel real lol

I am 4.5 weeks and I feel the same as you but imagine it’s probably because it’s so early! We can’t tell what’s happening in there... I’m sure (hopefully) when there’s a bump that grows it’ll feel more really.

I’m riddled with worry though, I wish I knew it was all ok in there!