im still worried something going to go wrong

[sonya2580]

im 12 weeks 2morrow but i dont feel like i am pregnant apart from consitpation and my nipples where sore but they r going back to normal now
and it dont feel like their is a tiny baby inside of me i know their is as i have had my scan
has anyone else felt like this or am i being stupid

i found out this morning that my blood presure is up and i have to go back to the docs on thursday

i keep waiting to by pregnancy tests and keep testing but so far i have managed not by any

im just so worried that something still is going to go wrong

It's natural to worry, try to ignore it. I felt 'not pregnant' until about 20 weeks - still sometimes wake up thinking I must have imagined it! Also used to feel stupid whenever I told anyone I was pregnant, secretly felt like I was making it up to get attention. Enjoy the symptoms easing off, believe me, there'll be plenty of new and unpleasant ones along soon enough. HTH

If you still feel like this in a couple of weeks you could buy a doppler to listen to the heartbeat - I don't think you would be able to hear it until about 18 weeks.
I did not feel pregnant till I was about 7 months - only sympton was growing bump that kept getting in the way - still hard to believe that in 4 weeks time a baby is going to come out!!
Stay Healthy and rest up to keep that BPressure low

Hi sonya, I feel for you. I didn't feel pregnant at all in the early weeks, and needed weekly scans at the beginning. It was the only thing that reassured me. After week 12 I went on to fortnightnly scans. It is so hard not to worry, especially if it is your first. Discuss your concerns with your midwife/consultant, they should be able to help.
All the best.

I know just how you feel. I had very few pregnancy symptoms; hadn't even been trying for a baby and when I went for my dating scan told the sonographer that she wouldn't find anything there! I was completely convinced that she would find nothing. So a big suprise when this wriggling little baby showed up on the scan!
It's natural to worry and your midwife is there to ease your worries. Don't fret alone. Talk to her and get advice from on here. I've found that anything I'm feeling has been felt by someone on here and advice is readily available to ease your concers.

thank you everyone its nice to no that im not the only one