Help...advice needed.

[Allydjoey]

Morning all. I'm driving myself mad. We've been trying to conceive baby no.2 for 2 years. 3 miscarriages. 1 mmc. 1 ectopic and 1 heartbeat stopped around 7 weeks. The last one was in March this year. Since then we've been trying but nothing happening. Even though many months I've felt symptoms. Last month I had that many symptoms I really thought I was pregnant. No period came bang on time.
Anyway, I bought a clearblue opk. It showed I ovulated 3 days later than what Flo predicted. I had empty circles, then flashing. On the Saturday morning I had a flashing one. Just after lunch I felt what I thought were ov pains. I went upstairs and took another and I got a solid smiley. We had done the deed that morning.
Anyway, I got super tender nipples pretty much the day after. Now they are slightly tender but erect. Sorry tmi. I had like a really wet feeling yesterday down below. I checked and there was a lot of white discharge. Sorry again tmi. I was 8dpo yesterday and had period type pains all day. No blood just pains. They have gone today now. But I definitely feel nauseous.
My question is can you have a period 8 days post ovulation?
I don't even want to set myself up for a fall to even think I might be pregnant. I tried a clearblue ultra early yesterday afternoon. But after lots of drink. Totally negative.
Any kind comments would be appreciated 🙏 x

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You could be feeling implantation pains?? Fingers crossed for you... keep us updated.

I think you just need to hold out until AF is due and then test. Its so hard I know when its all you can think about but you'll ties yourself up in knots otherwise. Good luck x

I could pinpoint the day I implanted at 7DPO, because I was out for a walk and had to come home after 20mins as I couldn’t carry on.
It was like period pains that were intensified by walking!
Fingers crossed! 🤞🏻

I have 26 day cycle. So 3 days until I'm supposed to be due on. Although I ovulated 2/3 days late so I'm actually 9DPO.
I'm starting to feel sick and dizzy now. Dull aches in my lower tummy. Weird twinges. Lower back ache.
I know they are all symptoms of pms. I just don't usually get these this early before my period.
Thanks so much for your kind comments. No doubt I will be telling you all AF has arrived. But you never know. Xx

Ah thanks. Yes I know. I don't know why I do it to myself each time xx

I think if you had possible implantation pains yesterday (which would fit, at 8dpo), it will be another at least 4 days until there’s enough hcg present to show on a test- so I’d test around 12dpo. Good luck OP

Ok I will wait until then. Plus if not AF might arrive before then. So that will answer it one way or another.
I think I'm just going to take some paracetamol and try and forget about it.
They are back again today. With the nausea. Back ache and light headedness.
In January I suspected but as I was so scared of seeing a negative test I waited for almost a week late. The week I was late I had similar sort of pains. That was post AF due not before. X anyway thanks and I'm sorry to go on. Everyone including family and friends have heard everything each month...ooh I think I am....ooh no I'm not....no one really to talk to. X

Just an update. I think I'm out. Had period pains on and off for the last 2 days. Had dizziness, nausea, headaches, tender boobs. I went to the loo earlier and wiped very pale pink cm almost tan looking. But my back and tummy cramping. 10 dpo and 2 days before my period due. I'm usually regular as clock work. I've never had pre period pains like this so early. Thanks for all your kind advice.
I feel so gutted again. Especially as there seems to be so many pregnancies being announced. I'm in the camp of giving up. X

@Allydjoey maybe implantation? I had pains that felt exactly like the beginning of a period, and blood. But I saw a heartbeat on a scan yesterday! Xx

I thought I was out 4 days before AF was due this time as I had brown mucas for a day, it must have been implantation in hind sight

Ah thank you for your kind messages. @Cafeaulait27 that's amazing. I'm honestly swinging back and forth. I saw brown pink discharge then clear ish. The pains are coming and going. Not I don't think like a normal period for me. It's strange as I don't get pains that in advance. Any pg symptoms disappear when it starts but still here. I guess time will tell. But I will let you all know either way x but thank you.

@Sanch1 Aww congratulations!! Mine started as brown or tan ish. Very very pale though. Then it looked pink. Then pale again. The pain coming and going. Let's see 😊

Hello update all!! So this just happened. 11dpo end of day test on digital xx

@Allydjoey ah that’s amazing congratulations!

@SearchingForToes thank you so much. I been swinging back and forth. I'm due on tomorrow. I saw the test and thought oh sod it I can't wait. Although I should've as my heart was in my mouth. Im literally shaking xx

Congratulations!!!

Congratulations! I have everything crossed for you, and hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy x

@Cafeaulait27 thank you 😊!! You too.

@BeMorePacific thank you and me too. Just got to go with it. I'm ringing to book a viability scan this morning. And register for consultant care x 🙏🤞