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Feeling like bump grows and shrinks!?!?

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sleaterminnie · 23/08/2020 11:20

Really weird one:

I'm 17 weeks today and had a sort of bump pop out around the 13-14 week mark.

Last couple of weeks - sometimes my bump feels absolutely HUGE, and then sometimes it seems like its barely there at all. Like this morning, I woke up and looked at it in the mirror, and it seems like it has gone right down again.

I was already overweight when I got pregnant (though not hugely so, BMI a long way from obese and according to midwife zero concern), so it still looks like a lumpy fat belly just sticking out rather than smooth and firm. But still, sometimes I'm thinking "How the hell did I get so big in just a few weeks?", and then other times "I swear this was bigger before?".

I know that, especially since its the mornings, a lot of it is probably just food/water bloat going up and down. But I absolutely never had noticeable food bloat before getting pregnant. Or could it be the baby changing position?

I also know that I'm being ridiculous - I'm a bit of a hypochondriac and I've been really anxious about this pregnancy already, and that this doesn't mean anything necessarily. I was just wondering if anyone else feels/felt like this?

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HopeWish · 23/08/2020 13:40

I'm 18+1 and noticed a bump from around 14/15 weeks. Like you, it seemed to be huge some days and barely noticeable on others. It was also usually bigger at night and in the morning had gone down again, so I had attributed this to bloating from whatever I'd eaten in the day. I think that pregnancy makes you bloat more than usual anyway.

I was starting to get worried as I go back to work next week (teacher so not physically been in school with colleagues/pupils since march), and I really wanted to have a noticeable bump to avoid the is she/isn't she stage. However, this week it 'popped' again, and now looks like a bump even first thing in the morning, and also feels a lot harder above my belly button.

But yeah, for a few weeks it seemed to go up and down. Now it only seems to be growing every day!

carleyemma91 · 23/08/2020 15:32

It's likely the baby changing position as well as normal bloating. Wait until you get bigger and your bump changes shape, that's freaky haha.

Charlottejade89 · 23/08/2020 16:59

Mines always bigger in the evenings and then shrinks again abit by the morning. I think in the mornings you carry less water etc and won't be bloated as you haven't eaten through the night

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