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Scans ( Have restrictions been relaxed?)

14 replies

Summerrp · 22/07/2020 20:34

I'm due to go for my first 12 weeks scan in a few weeks (in a south london hospital) Do we still need to attend alone or has this been lifted.
I'm absolutely terrified of going alone and finding out bad news, I know that sounds very negative but cant help it.

Thank you

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SallyCinnamon3009 · 22/07/2020 20:36

At my trust not lifted and been advised not likely to be for some time. Private places are now letting you take one person though

peachypetite · 22/07/2020 20:36

It varies by hospital so best to ask your own.

Bert2020 · 22/07/2020 20:41

I’m South London too and no changes. Scan today, 3 men waiting outside the entrance.

lockdownpregnancy · 22/07/2020 20:49

Big fat no where I am too. DH hasn't been to any of them and I'm 30 weeks. 😢😢
We had a private 30 week scan last week as pp said, they are allowing partners in with you, as I wanted DH to be part of my pregnancy and it was so amazing! It made us both so happy to share the experience.
I definitely recommend you have one, especially with the majority of hospitals not even allowing partners through the doors, let alone the scan!

passthemustard · 22/07/2020 20:55

I had mine 5 weeks ago and felt the same as you.

I told my DP not to come (he was going to drive me and wait in the car) but the letter said I could be up to 2 hours so I told him not to bother.

However the midwife I saw after the scan said that in cases of bad news they bring the partner in from the car park. I said I wish I had known that as I told my partner to stay at work!

My scan was fine and I'm sure yours will be too. Good luck

Lottieloux · 22/07/2020 22:07

Depends where you are Gloucestershire hospitals have allowed 1 partner since the 20th. I’m in the south east and still must attend alone

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Prettylittlelady · 22/07/2020 22:18

I’m in Essex and it’s still a no to partners at my hospital

islandislandisland · 22/07/2020 22:26

My trust in South East has see started allowing partners to just the 12 week scan. I've spent the entire pregnancy going to everything alone. I feel sorry for those in the waiting room for their 20 week scans being by themselves watching those having their 12 week scans sitting with their partners.

Natt99 · 23/07/2020 08:18

They've just announced that partners are allowed into scans in my area, South East. So happy, as DH can now come to 20 week scan. Hope it becomes nationwide soon

Summerrp · 23/07/2020 08:34

Thank you all, going to keep my fingers crossed and ring and ask a couple of days before x

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Maidmummy · 23/07/2020 10:11

I'm in south Yorkshire and it's a no here, my midwife said my borough (we only have a population of 300,000) is not allowing partners or opening clinics back up until at least september, being that your in a much bigger area than me I can see it being a while until they are allowing partners in x

Birdy1991 · 23/07/2020 10:13

@Summerrp what hospital? There may be information online, there is for my trust.

Pol96 · 23/07/2020 11:02

My trust have been allowing since 6th July, definitely call and find out as it seems to vary across the country.

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