Hi, I don't really have any one else to talk to about this and have found myself in a difficult situation where my baby has two potential father's, please helpme to figure it out 😔 I'm aware I don't look great from any of this and was going through a really hard time, given dates I'm obviously keeping the baby it's just getting to me that there is no real way of knowing until the baby gets here.
My LMP was on December 9th and I usually have a 29 day cycle.
On 15th December I had unprotected sex with guy A.
On 20th December I went on a night out and fooled around with guy B. We didnt have sex but there was some brief touching of genitals without underwear on. we were both really drunk and he couldn't get it up and certainly didn't finish.
22nd December had unprotected sex with guy A again.
Both times guy A finished inside me where as guy B didn't go inside me, the touching was brief (less than 2 mins) and didn't finish at all and as far as I remember there was no precum.
Dates were adding up that it would be guy As Babu However at 12 week scan I was put ahead by 2 days which would make date of ovulation 21st and most likely day of conception 20th so more in line with Guy B.
In my head it is so ridiculously unlikely that it is guy Bs baby given the circumstances of the occasion but being put forward has just caused a niggle in the back of my head that it could be his.
Im not with either guy but would prefer it to be guy As as Guy B doesn't really have his life together and would not be prepared or emotionally available for this.
Please help!!