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Pregnant after MC

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valB16 · 09/06/2020 20:26

Just found out I am pregnant again after suffering a miscarriage back in October. However, I am just really anxious and scared it will happen again. I am 4 weeks pregnant according to dates etc and just feeling dull aches and cramps and my period would have been due 1.5 days time. Is it normal to feel these cramps at this stage ?

Symptoms wise, I pretty much have everything except nausea. Again, when should I really be feeling sick ?

I have a 3 year old already and just so excited to be pregnant again but I am just so scared to even get excited until I pass the most at risk weeks.

I know I had implantation 10-11DPO and then today at 13DPO I wiped and there was a tiny piece of discharge with a very very small streak of spotting blood. What could this be & is it bad ?

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Lucky08 · 09/06/2020 20:30

first of all congratulations. I had two MC in a row one just after 4 weeks and one just after 6 weeks. I then went on to have a successful pregnancy. For all three pregnancy I had sickness at 4 weeks (turned out I have HG) cramping and bleeding. The test line stayed faint on the MC at 4 weeks and got darker on the other 2. All people are different but cramps and spotting don't always Mean the worst, but even if it does, don't give up.

Lucky08 · 09/06/2020 20:31

Oh i had bleeding on all three aswell. First 2 started as spotting and then got heavier, the third pregnancy stayed at spotting.

valB16 · 11/06/2020 05:29

Hi,

I ended up having another MC (chemical). I guess I was right to trust my gut when something feels to good to be true.

x

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Lucky08 · 13/06/2020 15:20

I'm so so sorry. But please don't give up. Luke I said previously, I has 2 MC before this pregnancy and I'm now 31 weeks so it can happen even after you give up all hope. There was no reason for my previous MC's

valB16 · 13/06/2020 16:12

No one really understands the pain and anxiety unless it has happened to your personally. I am surprisingly doing better than with my first MC but I have decided to take a break and try again maybe next year just need to sort myself out because I think for me my PCOS has a lot to do with it. Did you try with your 3rd straight after ? X

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Lucky08 · 13/06/2020 21:19

Yeah. I think we ended up conceiving the following month. I did take baby asprin though this time at the start of pregnancy. I discussed it with my GP first and she could not see any harm in giving it a go. It's heart breaking having to go through two In a row but if there is one thing I learnt it's to wait until your completely ready. I think I tried again too soon and this has caused anxiety with this pregnancy that something can go wrong. Even following the 20 week scan I was still convinced it wasn't going to be successful. X

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