Over the past few days I've been having pains in my stomach and tailbone and lower back, and lots of pressure and even shooting pains in my bum and stuff, my mum said that's what she was like when she was in slow labour as I'm only 34+4 and when I told my midwife she said she will send off a urine sample and a swab to be checked, shouldn't she be checking if I'm dilating or anything? Just a query, thanks in advance x