So I have had 3 miscarriages, the first two I only had scans once I started bleeding, the third one I had a scan at 6 and 8 weeks both internal, baby then died at 9 weeks and 4 days which we found out at a scan at 10 and half weeks
My mum blamed the scans being internal for that loss and now that I'm pregnant again and been offered an early scan at 7 weeks, she has gone off on one saying how she thinks they are dangerous and will cause a higher risk for miscarriage.....
I have so much anxiety because of previous miscarriages and just want to know everything is okay
I know in my mind that there is basically no risk and having sex is rougher than an internal scan! They will try abdominal first but in the past I've had a tilted uterus and I'm a bit fat so its been difficult 🤷♀️
Guess I'm just looking for reassurance because even my friends who know dont think its a good idea 🤦♀️