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Bad news at 12 week scan.....again

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Furbabymum15 · 15/05/2020 10:51

So for the second time my baby has no fetal heartbeat. Life is so cruel.

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Spacecudet · 15/05/2020 14:11

@MariposaPink I had spotting week 10 with my DS over a few days, had a scan a couple of days later and everything was fine. Fingers crossed for you.

ririoo · 15/05/2020 14:12

I'm so sorry Thanks

toomuchteaandcake · 15/05/2020 14:13

So sorry OP. Look after yourself xx

BooBooVictoria · 15/05/2020 14:18

I am so so sorry for your loss. Absolutely heartbroken for you, life really makes no sense sometimes😔. I really wish there was something I could do to take away your pain. Be kind to yourself. Big hugs 💖💖💖 xxxx

Sexnotgender · 15/05/2020 14:19

I’m so sorry Flowers

rossKemp · 15/05/2020 14:26

So sorry OP Flowers

MariposaPink · 15/05/2020 14:35

@Spacecudet thank you for sharing and your best wishes. Hopefully everything will turn out fine xx

TheSweetestHalleluja · 15/05/2020 14:55

I'm so sorry, its a heart breaking thing to go through, life really can be cruel sometimes.

Furbabymum15 · 15/05/2020 16:18

All such lovely ladies thankyou so much for your support, it really means a lot and makes me feel less alone xx to the expecting ladies on this thread I wish you all happy healthy pregnancies xxx

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Wheresthebiffer2 · 15/05/2020 16:21

This is so sad. I'm sorry.

user1487755366 · 15/05/2020 16:23

I am so sorry to hear that. This is what nobody wants to experience and it is so cruel for you to have to go through it for a second time.

Take care of yourself

latulipe · 15/05/2020 16:33

So sorry Thanks

MrsRose2018 · 15/05/2020 16:39

OP I don’t even have the words!

I had a MC last year and It was just heartbreaking!

I don’t know the exact specifics but my stepdads daughter sadly went through exactly what you did - two times in a row there was no heartbeat at her 12 week scan. As far as I’m aware she then underwent treatment - hormone injections I believe - and she went on to carry two children after that!

I know this is likely of no comfort to right now but there can be a light amidst all this awfulness xx

Applesandlemons · 15/05/2020 23:09

Really sorry to hear this Flowers

HangryChip · 15/05/2020 23:30

I'm so very sorry OP. I remember the awful numb feeling when it happened to me, also at the 12 week scan. So sorry you have to go through it again. Flowers

HangryChip · 15/05/2020 23:31

Ps I went on to have 2 children so I really hope it works out for you.

Astella22 · 15/05/2020 23:46

I’ve been there OP & yes it’s utterly heartbreaking. It’s a grief that marks the soul. Be kind to yourself and allow yourself to be sad, there is no right or wrong way to deal with it. Dont be afraid to take the time you need initially to heal.

Furbabymum15 · 16/05/2020 12:02

Thanx so much for all your kind words.....you're all amazing xx

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peachypetite · 16/05/2020 13:51

@Furbabymum15 I assumed you’d probably stop checking the other thread as it would be too painful. So sorry to hear your news. Please take good care of yourself Flowers

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