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Anyone else going it alone

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Delbelleber · 24/04/2020 19:12

I'm a single mum of 2 already and I'm expecting my 3rd. This baby's dad is a bit of a loose cannon and I'm unsure how much involvement I'm going to allow him ( depends on his behaviour). So I've decided I'm going to have my c section alone and my mum will be at my house to help out when I get out of hospital and then I'll be bringing up a baby by myself!
I was living with my ex when the other 2 were babies so I've never done this alone before. I know it's going to be really hard work!

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usernameannonymous · 24/04/2020 19:16

Don't have any advice but congratulation on your bubba, when are you due? Thanks

Delbelleber · 24/04/2020 19:19

I've got a section booked for 19th of May, 25 days and counting! And thank you.

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usernameannonymous · 24/04/2020 19:21

Aww not long until you meet them! Do you know what you're expecting? x

Delbelleber · 24/04/2020 19:23

Boy! Are you pregnant also?

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ThisMustBeMyDream · 24/04/2020 19:24

I did it alone with my 3rd. From 12 weeks pregnant. Ex husband turned out to be a cheating shit. He hasn't seen the kids since (eldest isn't his but younger 2 are).

He turns 5 in 6 weeks. No regrets. None whatsoever. And I am the person that said I would never ever have a baby alone. I was quite adament about that. But it was the greatest thing I have ever done.

usernameannonymous · 24/04/2020 19:25

Yes Smile My little girl is due in September x

Delbelleber · 24/04/2020 19:26

It's just the thought of having noone to hand the baby over to when I've had a rough day of it, I guess it will be different because I'll have my older dc to help entertain him though.

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Delbelleber · 24/04/2020 19:27

Congrats on baby girl @usernameannonymous is she your 1st?

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usernameannonymous · 24/04/2020 19:31

Yes she is BearHalo

ThisMustBeMyDream · 24/04/2020 20:49

How old are your other two? Mine was 13, and the younger 2.5 when my 3rd arrived. My eldest was a great help. I have no family support at all.

Delbelleber · 24/04/2020 21:28

Mine are 7 and nearly 12. This one was a big surprise!

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