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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

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Leah3346 · 23/04/2020 13:50

Hi girls so I’m having a bit of a confusing time at the moment. I am 17 weeks 3 days pregnant. Please don’t judge my situation! I was with my partner for quite a while and we broke up back in November time. I started seeing someone different the month after that and we agreed it’d be casual as I wasn’t over my ex boyfriend. I slept with this new man on the 31st of December for the first time. My ex boyfriend then contacted me on the 4th of January, we met up and spoke and then I ended up sleeping with him on the 4th, the 6th and the 8th of January. Fast forward 2 or so weeks to a few days prior to my missed period I took a pregnancy test. An extremely faint line appeared, took another dozen and the result was the same, the line was barely noticeable. Then got hold of a clear blue test which came up with 1-2 weeks pregnant. The date of the first day of my last period was the 25th of December. I am usually pretty good with contraception and using condoms but I was going through a pretty rough stage when I broke up with my ex, family issues etc and my behaviour was reckless which i can confirm I regret now immensely! My periods are pretty regular and my cycle differs from 29/30 days. The new man I slept with did NOT ejaculate inside me. Very TMI but i recall clearing it up off the sofa afterwards hahaha! My boyfriend who I slept with on the 4th,6th, and 8th ejaculated in me every time we had sex. My pregnancy app says I ovulated on the 6th/7th when I was with my ex boyfriend, and my 12 week scan also set my dates to the 6th. I suffer quite badly with OCD which is diagnosed and I take medication for and it seems deep down I know the answer but am looking for clarification to ease these intrusive thoughts. Can someone please just put my mind at ease? And also what is the likelihood of sperm lasting 7 days? I’m reading that it’s pretty rare. Thanks guys x

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CatsAndOcelots · 23/04/2020 13:54

If you're asking who is likely to be the father of your baby, I would say your ex.

CatsAndOcelots · 23/04/2020 13:56

Are you still with either of them?

Really, the only way to tell will be a DNA test after the baby is born, but the dates strongly suggest that your ex is the dather.

Nestofvipers · 23/04/2020 15:05

It could be either of the,. The only way to know is with a DNA test.

I slept with this new man on the 31st of December for the first time. Am not sure whether you mean by this that the 31 December was the only time you slept with the new man or whether that date was just the first time?

Nestofvipers · 23/04/2020 15:06
  • it coyote be either of them
Nestofvipers · 23/04/2020 15:06

FFS Could not coyote

Cherryrainbow · 23/04/2020 15:09

It could be either. I'm 18 weeks and would have conceived around the first week of January.

Be honest with the ex and other guy, don't make out you know for certain who the dad is or that no one else is in the picture because it will only cause more problems.

pillowtalkey · 23/04/2020 15:15

Could be either to be fair , I got pregnant with my first by having sex and him pulling out. I think the
Only way you will know is by getting a DNA test done and being completely honest with both of them now.

Bienentrinkwasser · 23/04/2020 15:28

It’s a lot, lot more likely to be your ex than the other guy. Not entirely impossible it’s the other guy but I’d put money on your ex.

Leah3346 · 23/04/2020 15:36

@Nestofvipers this was the only time x

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