11 weeks pregnant and stressed

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Hey guys.

Iv been stressing out so much recently. I’m 11 weeks pregnant today. My scan is 8 th April . I miscarried last year around this time. Iv managed to convince myself there is no baby in there. My sore boobs are gone I have no bump at all even though this is baby no 4. I just don’t know what to do with myself. Many thanks x

Hi. Sounds like you're due around the same time as me as our scans are on the same day. I also miscarried last year and know how you're feeling. If it helps, my symptoms have decreased a lot and went away for a week or so. I think it's quite normal around this time for them to subside. Try not to worry (easier said than done I know!). Is anywhere near you doing private scans still? I had one at 8 weeks as was freaking out and so anxious and it really set my mind at ease. Obviously still terrified of going to the 12 week scan and seeing nothing, but it did help to get that private one. Let us know how you get on.

Thank you for your response fosk. It helped. Unfortunately I miscarried on Monday , would’ve been scan day today. Not sure if we will keep trying. I wish you all the best. Take care x

I'm so sorry to hear that. Make sure you're kind to yourself and take all the time you need. It's a tough process, but you'll get there in time.