Late miscarriage

[Bean100620]

I had a late miscarriage at 14wks and 3days (first pregnancy). It's been just over 2 months since, and it's been the toughest time of my life trying to cope with the loss of our baby. It was never explained why even after testing on the pregnancy tissue. Everything was normal. We now want to try again and i'm so scared that it might happen again and I wouldn't be able to cope with it a second time. Has anyone been through something similar and can offer any advice? I really don't want to spend my next pregnancy a nervous reck. Thank you.

Hi i lost a baby at 20wks ive went on and had 4 more babies, i did worry alot when ive been pregnant but i think thats normal.
My advice is when u get pregnant again & are worried then talk about it as keeping it to yourself will drive u crazy.
Also know that just because u lost a baby doesnt mean its going to happen again.
Remember is ok to worry just dont let it take over the joy of being pregnant again.
Good luck i hope u get your rainbow baby x

Mysocalledlifexx thank you for replying, I'm sorry about your loss at 20 weeks, it's nice to hear you went on to have successful pregnancies afterwards. Thanks for the re-assuring advice. Me too! Going to try my best to enjoy it. X