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38+2 weeks pregnant sweep done only 1cm dilated.. feel deflated

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MumOf3FeralGirls · 18/02/2020 12:58

So I know I'm only 38 weeks pregnant but I'm so over the spd, heartburn and insomnia.

I went midwifes to she performed a sweep said she did a little one but also said I'm only 1cm dilated I'm still thick and -2 position. I feel deflated I was really hoping being my 4th this baby would "fall out"

No pains after the baby however is not happy shes going mental 😫

I've had no show no mucous coming away (I dont remember even seeing these on my last 3 either though) but tons of painful BH for weeks! So to be told I'm thick and not dilated is so disheartening!
I dont think I can do this any longer!

Anyone else gone from 1 cm mid anterior and thick to having a baby soon after?

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SparkleUK · 18/02/2020 13:08

Just sending some hugs your way as feel your pain!

I went for a sweep last week at 39 weeks. She couldn't do one as closed and high although baby 2/5 engaged and not a lot seems to be happening since. They're great fun aren't they?!

Hopefully someone will be able to give you a good story of their own experience 🤞

MumOf3FeralGirls · 18/02/2020 13:13

Is this your first?

My mw said that because this isnt my first my cervix would be 1cm anyways so really does feel like nothing is happening.

4 babies in and I'm still a compete novice 🙈

I hope baby comes soon for you 😘🤞

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novacaneforthepain · 18/02/2020 13:16

I was 2cm at my sweep, and by the time I got home, I had to go straight back to the hospital to deliver 🤣

Good luck x

lyingwanker · 18/02/2020 13:19

All 4 of mine were over due, no matter how many sweeps were performed!

Good luck, these last few weeks are the hardest

SparkleUK · 18/02/2020 13:26

Yes, first little boy and he seems very comfy in there! Thank you, I'd be okay if I wasn't being messaged every 5 minutes 😂

They're all so different and unpredictable, like to keep you on your toes! Hope little one starts getting a move on for you soon

addyt · 18/02/2020 13:37

Firstly, I feel your pain! I had so many Brixton hicks and was in and out from 33 weeks with full on contractions

Maybe TMI but I was put on a sex ban! Blush Orgasms in particular kept starting contractions! - maybe give that a try if you want to give birth soon!!! Grin

MumOf3FeralGirls · 18/02/2020 17:06

This is so promising! I had a nap I've woken up with period like pains but I've had these for some many weeks now ergh! I'm not sure if it's because I have 3 little girls running me in circles but this baby more than others I just want out. I grew impatient only with other when I went over due.
.shes calmed down though so least shes forgiven me for the midwife prodding her head at last

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MumOf3FeralGirls · 18/02/2020 17:12

My oh works away so no chance of that..
.and to be honest it's a great excuse not to have sex I may say I've been put on a ban for the foreseeable future, "having a headache" obviously didnt work or I wouldn't be on here asking for advice on my 4th 😂

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