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Bickering with husband

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BoomBoomBoomLetMeHearYouSay · 27/01/2020 09:04

Anyone else pregnant and constantly bickering?

I feel like we had a lot more fun before I was pregnant tbh. We have also just moved house which has added additional stress but I find us bickering about the smallest things.

For example today I asked him to grab my phone for me from upstairs. For context I’m finding the stairs quite hard although I can still do them obviously Basically got a “do it yourself” which has really pissed me off.

We did have a day out on Saturday and had a lovely time but if we are around the house trying to get domestic stuff done we are bickering. He does a lot round the house, don’t get me wrong but if I’m asking him to do stuff he hasnt planned to do that day then that’s an issue. But some of the stuff I just can’t do myself now eg lift heavy boxes. Finding it pretty wearing and worried about how things will be when the baby arrives. He’s not lazy at all, but he seems not to react well to something unplanned happened eg me even asking him to grab my phone. But when the baby is here unplanned things will happen all the time!

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Highfield21 · 27/01/2020 09:31

It is normal. You are in the beginning of the transition to parenthood. Pregnancy is an uncertain time for both of you and it sounds like he hasn’t yet understood how debilitating pregnancy can be.
Yes, there will be challenges but it’s just part of having a baby together. Relationships do change but they can become stronger. Just different from just the two of you.
Keep an open communication with him.
Hang on and enjoy the ride !

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