Hello folks
I had sex with my girlfriend on the nights of 31st Dec and 1st Jan - only a few days ago. We used a condom on both occasions, and I always check afterwards to see if the condom has split or something like that - it was fine. We use no other form of contraception.
So pretty 'safe', but during foreplay there was fingering - touching myself and her - so a small chance of precum transference.
Then on the 4th of Jan she noticed slight bleeding from her vagina and tenderness in her breasts - and she knows that these can be early signs of pregnancy.
Her last period was the 21st Dec (and our previous sex was before then) so her next period isn't due for a couple of weeks.
Clearly, the time between sex and her symptoms is rather brief, and so unlikely it would signify pregnancy - but we're still a bit worried!
Although our sex was relatively safe, why would she be noticing these symptoms?
Any thoughts welcome!
Thanks