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NO PREGNANCY SYMPTOMS AT ALL - 13 WEEKS

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Sylwunia · 23/12/2019 09:22

Hello all :) I am already 13 weeks pregnant and have not yet had one symptom apart from mild sore breast. I know you will say that I should consider myself lucky but how on earth do you go day by day with knowing that you are still pregnant? I mean, if I could have a scan every day, I really would.
I worry all the time :(

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WorldsOnFire · 23/12/2019 09:34

I can’t even describe how jealous I am! Honestly words fail me 😂!

FWIW I get women constantly telling me ‘God I wish I’d stayed as slim as you during my pregnancy’ - or very similar ‘I’m so jealous’ comments and I just sit there thinking 😡... well maybe If I’d been able to keep food down since week 6 I’d be a whale by now 😂

So I do understand the whole ‘grass isn’t always greener’ thing and having no symptoms can be very worrying.

Honestly, there’s just nothing you can do. I’m 26 weeks now and after worrying constantly I’ve decided to just stop! Follow NHS guidelines, use common sense and understand that whatever is going to happen is going to happen. Not your fault and nothing you can do, worrying will not help and honestly it’s a much higher chance you’ll be totally fine! Xx

Sylwunia · 23/12/2019 12:19

Thank you. Bless you. I have 4 of my closest friends pregnant ( not sure how we all get pregnant the same time ), and they all have it really bad - so extreme they can't even go to work.

Pregnancy is a weird process and I guess every one goes through it in their own ways xx

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misselphaba · 23/12/2019 12:36

I had zero symptoms during my first pregnancy. Apart from the obvious - no period and and an ever increasing bump.

This pregnancy I have had the lot. The nausea started at 5.5 weeks. Pregnancy is weird, indeed.

emilyrhian · 23/12/2019 13:11

@Sylwunia I am exactly the same situation - I am about 10 weeks pregnant and still waiting for the date of my first scan. I cannot stop stressing if the baby is ok and although to begin with I had some nausea and fatigue, every symptom has gone and I no longer even feel pregnant. I'm hoping I feel better after the 12 week scan - I'm hoping that it helps put my mind at rest, but the wait is just unbearable. Me and my partner were both told we'd probably never be able to have kids due to our medical histories, so the fact that it's happened is a miracle and I feel it's putting even more pressure on me. I'm not allowing myself to get too excited yet, but I just wish there was a way I could 'feel' like I was pregnant, because not feeling pregnant is unnerving me and making me worry something is wrong

Beseen19 · 23/12/2019 13:19

I always had pretty grim periods so when I finally got pregnant the first time the only unpleasant symptom was a slightly itchy area around my belly button in the last few weeks. I actually felt better than I ever had.

Paying for it now, currently 35 weeks and had pretty much every single symptom. DH is saying no more babies after this one!

Marmitepasta · 23/12/2019 13:23

Don't worry!! I had zero symptoms (not even tender breasts) and was convinced that I must not be pregnant despite positive tests. Well, it was twins!!!!

BeautyAndTheBump1 · 24/12/2019 11:31

Symptoms or no symptoms you'd still worry! I have hyperemesis and throwing up all day every day and I still worry, because symptoms can still continue even if you've had a MMC.
So just enjoy your symptom free pregnancy because no matter what theres always the anxiety with it!

hjbows88 · 24/12/2019 12:47

I’m almost 15 weeks and have had very few symptoms - breast tenderness but I’ve always has that, increased discharge (but this comes and goes, not consistent) and some mild constipation occasionally. I’ve also worried about the lack of symptoms and I’m very petite and not really showing a bump or anything so have worried whether everything is ok but multiple private scans (and 12 week nhs) have confirmed all is good so far. Try to relax and let nature do its thing x

Nellrose1 · 04/01/2020 15:14

I’m 13+5 weeks and had no symptoms apart from tender breasts and that’s it, I worry terrible that something is wrong but have my scan on Tuesday Smile

daydreambeleiver · 04/01/2020 15:16

I didn't have any with my second, didn't even show until 20+ weeks at all. Count your blessings

Engard · 04/01/2020 15:21

Enjoy it! You'll feel them all before long

OlivejuiceU2 · 04/01/2020 15:45

Enjoy it! I’ve have HG and have been suffering since 6 weeks, now 11 weeks. I’ve been in hospital too. I’d rather be able to eat and drink healthy

fllinn · 04/01/2020 16:47

I don't think they recommend it but in my first two pregnancies I used a handheld doppler to listen to the heartbeat. I found it at around 10 weeks but I know some women can't pick it up until much later.

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