Split with husband and want a divorce 16 weeks pregnant

[Laurapb88]

Hi, I recently split up with my husband it was a mutual thing he wanted a break and I'd had enough of the bickering and arguing it's all been very amicable until this weekend we went for a gender scan after which he said he was coming round to talk about how were going to co parent and so on only he decided that going out and taking coke was better than that and doing a disappearing act all weekend ignoring everyone including his nan who was worried sick. I do not want drugs around the baby and now I want a divorce but everyone is saying it's too soon not sure if I should hold off or go with my instincts sorry for the long post x

He's a coke head and you are going to have a baby.

Those don't mix.

Has he always been into coke or is it a new thing? How old is he?

Go with your instincts. If he is choosing coke over parenting now, that won't change. File for divorce.

Tbh hes been on and off for years under no circumstances will I allow my son to be around drugs he knows that and still chose it, its mainly his family that are saying I'm rushing thanks guys x

He ain't going to change, but you know this. You are doing the right thing.