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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

No sex during pregnancy. Partner not attracted to me?

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Miimii786 · 18/10/2019 01:06

Hi ladies,
This is my first pregnancy and I have noticed since I got a bump my husband stopped getting horny... sorry to be TMI.
Is he feeling unattracted to me? He takes really good care of me and showers me with love in other ways but I can tell he does not want to have sex with me...
We were extremely active before I got pregnant but since the bump I feel like he is seeing me differently. He can’t feel any lust which arouses him, he is also scared to hurt the baby and overall I think he just doesn’t like the idea of sex with my preggers body.
Did anyone else experience this with their partner?
Is this normal?
He is really excited for the baby and as mentioned before he is taking amazing care of all my needs but he has stopped feeling aroused for me...

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YouBringLightInToADarkPlace · 10/07/2020 19:18

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Seumberp · 02/08/2021 02:27

Hello every1,well in my case my husband does everything possible for me.But the fact is that its been 6 years since he have sex only twice a year thats it not even cuddle or huggs or kisses and by chance i got pregnant this time for the first time and im on 8mnths but till now he has not touched me.i feel hornier especially since i got pregnant but need to bear it.i tried to talk within this 6 years but nothing change and even tried to make the first step myself but end up feeling like im forcing him.any1 living with this issue.

Justjxo · 12/04/2022 14:42

Hi im just looking for some advice im currently 34 weeks pregnant and just feel miserable my partner always wanted kids but since I've gotten pregnant he treats me with no compassion, shows barely any interest in the the pregnancy expects me to wait hand and foot on him though he has openly said numerous times hes not attracted to me anymore that he will be though once I've had the baby and lose weight hes changed completely and I'm worried he won't ever go back to the way he was just wondering if anyone has being through similar as I dont want to talk to friends and family about it thanks

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WorryMcGee · 12/04/2022 15:12

Didn’t realise this was an old thread! I just reported my own post to get it removed 🤦🏼‍♀️

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